That sux.  I have similar feelings about the Democrats here.  But considering the other party…… Oh well.

So sorry to hear, but if things were not working out perhaps its for the best. I had to re build my life when my partner passed away from cancer. I joined groups where someone had lost a partner and then made new connections from that. 

I would post body pictures but it would break the terms of the forum even in swim ware, but i know what i look like so thats all that matters. my average weight as below  

with time my body began to re align in the most profound way.

I can see where you are coming from on the bi side. I think and feel that a lot of men our age who crossdressed and was called a transvestite by others in the know. I used to buy a magazine called the Tartan Skirt that a lot of gals advertised on that they had a place to dress and are friendly and discreet. Most not all were either bi single men or gay single men who wrote the adverts. This was a risqué time for crossdresser’s as we never knew what we were letting themselves into. And yes a lot of gurls went along with the bi side and ended embracing that side. As it was against the law and there were people who just wanted to beat dressers up. But for me it is still where in the scale am I as I know how far along the sexual side I am 

It is indeed a very personal choice of who you come out to. As a way to show that, my therapist suggested I make a list of who I wanted to come out to, and have a plan on how I would do it before I started. Being in IT, I made a spreadsheet. It ended up having over 300 names on it. It was tiring at times, but also addicting in some ways. By contrast, I had the chance to talk to the daughter of a friend of mine about our coming out. For her it was telling her parents, her mom's parents, and a couple of others, then she "just started living my life". Of course she's about 40 years younger than I, but it just shows that we each find out path. Best wishes on your coming out as you see fit. And on living your life authentically.

Only do it if you're comfortable!! It's 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘺 nerve-wracking, I get it, and you don't have to come out to anyone unless you want to. It's up to you and only you! No one else. I'm rooting for you! :]

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/may/09/labour-transgender-people-dylan-tippetts-plymouth     Carolyn Marie

https://www.politico.com/news/magazine/2025/05/09/trans-military-commander-confronts-trumps-ban-00339091     She is the living embodiment of a lethal warrior.  Hegseth can go suck an egg.   Carolyn Marie

For me, its the absence of clothes that improves my mood.  If I had a choice, I would wear only my ribbon choker collar and grass sandals.  Clothes are restrictive and overrated most of the time.  If I have to wear something, I prefer shorts and a t-shirt.  Uncomplicated and mostly gender-neutral.  I

Welcome back, @Sora-Solar.  Thanks for all the information, and best wishes on your journey of self-discovery!  It is never too early, or too late, to embark on such a journey, as I have found myself.   HUGS   Carolyn Marie

I am sorry that it happened. You will find another.

A few months back, I filled out an online form to get a binder, and today it finally arrived! It's a full-length one and a nice tan color that is only a few shades lighter than my skin. When I put it on, I couldn't stop running my hands over my chest, thinking, "Wow... this feels really different, I love it." Honestly, when I first wore it, I ended up crying because I realized I haven't felt comfortable in my own skin for so long. But when I put on the binder, I finally felt like I was being myself. I haven't come out to my family yet, so I had to sneak the package into the house under my sweater. This binder means everything to me, and I’m excited to really embrace who I am. And yes I know the rules to a binder: 1. **Limit Wear Time**: Do not wear the binder for more than 8 hours a day. 2. **Take Breaks**: Regularly take breaks to allow your body to rest and breathe. 3. **Weekly Limit**: Wear the binder no more than 5 days a week. 4. **Avoid Exercise**: Try not to exercise in the binder; if necessary, opt for a larger size. 5. **Keep It Dry**: Avoid getting the binder wet and do not sleep in it. 6. **Listen to Your Body**: Take breaks when needed and stop using the binder if you experience any pain. 7. **Stretch Often**: Make sure to stretch regularly to avoid any discomfort or stiffness. 

Hi! You might recognize me by previous names like Kyle or Kai, but I have now chosen to go by Sora or Solar.  Over the past few months, I've taken a step back from being active while I chosen to go on a personal journey of self-discovery. During this time, I researched various gender identities and created a detailed chart online to help clarify my feelings. Although I understand that my identity may continue to change, I currently feel safe and comfortable identifying as I do now. I identify as FTM (Female to Male), Non-Binary, and Demiboy. This means that while I was assigned female at birth, I resonate with the identity of a male, but I also embrace a non-binary aspect of myself. My pronouns are He/They/Xe/Ze/Fae. Here are examples that illustrate how to use each set of pronouns properly, in case you're unfamiliar with them: - **He/Him**: "His backpack is cool; maybe he is friendly—just look at him." - **They/Them**: "Their backpack is cool; maybe they are friendly—just look at them." - **Xe/Xem**: "Xyr backpack is cool; maybe xe is friendly—just look at xem." - **Ze/Zir**: "Zir backpack is cool; maybe ze is friendly—just look at zir." - **Fae/Faer**: "Faer backpack is cool; maybe fae is friendly—just look at faer." I am currently 13 years old, and my birthday falls on August 23. Writing is one of my greatest passions, especially composing poetry and fanfiction. I often engage myself in various fandoms, and I particularly enjoy anime series such as My Hero Academia, Demon Slayer, and Spy x Family. These interests fuel my creativity and inspire many of the stories I write.   If you know how to change display names please let me know! Thanks!

Ocean speaks to the world we have come to inhabit— its heartbreak and its poetry, its possibilities for loss and for finding new life.

The answer at least in the US is Don VonShitsInPants, the president. As of 2025 he claims we no longer exist and there's just 2 genders, while using the definition of biological sex instead of gender.  Well, and I'm also several years too young for surgery. Boy bits have got to go some day.  

Well when we moved to Cali I just met up with my cousins for the first time in years as a girl. I explained to them that I didn't feel like I belonged in my body as male and that male clothes made it feel so much worse. It took a few hours for them to adjust to it, but 0 issues came up. After a few months they now just think of me as their female cousin. I have gotten some uncomfortable questions from them, but I get that they just want to understand. Most of the uncomfortable questions involve describing body dysphoria. 

With time and on-the-bricks life, things change on this one.  I have been out and full time for 14 years by now, and I am wearing a pair of shorts from the old male pile and a T-shirt with a Breast Cancer Awareness logo on it.  No make-up, but I am seeing where my hair color needs a touch up although I just got done with a good brushing and will leave it long even though I am looking at a 96F (31C) weather day.  This is just day to day life by now, how I look is not as important to me as the smiles of people I know just greeting me as I pass by them or chat with them.

I'm only out to family, about 10 friends, and by bf, but I'm debating just telling everyone

For me it's important. I'll wear jeans if I'm doing something that would otherwise having me flashing underwear, but the rest of the time it's a dress or skirt. Of course I was lucky enough to get blockers and hrt early enough that I easily pass. Ty California!