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Well I am really happy for the two of you (Traci Nicole and Nicksister).

I just went through the COGIATI test and it labeled me as androgynous. I knew this was probably not the case. So I read through your descriptions and how you felt. The both of you seem to be very well versed and I would like to say comfortable. You were able to communicate your feelings and thoughts very clearly and concisely.

I envy your comfort. The reason I am thanking you is that you substantiated my feelings toward the result of the COGIATI test. I know I do not have the same feelings and you two made that easy for me to see.

I am glad the two of you are true to yourselves and can express yourselves so well.

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Well I am really happy for the two of you (Traci Nicole and Nicksister).

I just went through the COGIATI test and it labeled me as androgynous. I knew this was probably not the case. So I read through your descriptions and how you felt. The both of you seem to be very well versed and I would like to say comfortable. You were able to communicate your feelings and thoughts very clearly and concisely.

I envy your comfort. The reason I am thanking you is that you substantiated my feelings toward the result of the COGIATI test. I know I do not have the same feelings and you two made that easy for me to see.

I am glad the two of you are true to yourselves and can express yourselves so well.

I tried using the COGIATI test once, and it wouldn't give me the results.

But I don't need a test to tell me how I am.

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Guest Rev. Michal

I've never taken any sort of online gender test, I just know that if I do what I want to do, then I'll end up where I want to be. ^_^

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Guest NickSister

The Cogiati labelled me as "late onset transsexual", but currently I am happy with calling myself androgyne. I think the COGIATI test either confirms what you already know or helps you formulate questions about yourself e.g. "why the hell did is say I was late onset transexual?" ;) .

Perhaps self acceptance is a better word than comfortable. It has been a journey to get to the point where I am at and I don't think the journey will ever really end. I'm 30 and I have been trying to figure it out for years. The only thing I really held onto was that I was not what people thought I was or expected me to be - my biological sex did not define me. I have found the truest answers are those that come from within. No one else can tell you what you are inside though many people can help you discover what that is. Being able to express my gender has made a big difference - it removes a lot of the internal confusion though I still have my ups and downs too. But I think I have reached a point where I want to stop looking for answers and just be. Thats the best bit, just being.

Best of luck in your journey Jenny.

xx

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Guest Ryles_D

I took one. I was RIGHT on the line between kinna masculine and androgynous. Anyways, it's a test. An online test. Made to be general. It can't tell you who you are, just give you an idea where to look.

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