Hi Pattie Anne I hope everything goes in your favor with your ex.
Well last night was interesting I came out to my brother in law who I was scared to death to tell him. His reaction was “Oh”. I don’t really know how well it went time will Tell he thought I needed to get a second opinion. My sister was there and said she was very concerned about my wellbeing because she hasn’t seen me much happier but everytime I see her I had been presenting male and it pretty much ruins my mood anymore and between the anxiety of having her husband find out was getting to me. She said she doesn’t know what to tell people because several have been asking questions and she doesn’t feel comfortable telling them. I just hope my brother in law comes around and will accept me for me.
Put on a shirt girl! This isn't that kind of site!
You look fine. I've seen cis women that look less like a woman than you do while I'm out running errands. With a little makeup, you could be a knockout.
Shawna is magic? What did you have to rub? (Suggestive eyebrow wiggle.)
I'm not sure what the situation is out West, but I hope you get a sympathetic judge. The kind that says, "And?" when your wife starts outing you like it makes you some kind of monster. I've only heard bits and pieces but your ex... she sounds like a real piece of work. Good luck! Fingers crossed!
That's unacceptable behavior @_x.anime.x. Vicky is absolutely right. You were assaulted by someone who should have been loving, supportive and accepting. You're better off without him.
Might I suggest a therapist or a sexual assault survivors support group? I'm on the wrong side of the Atlantic, so I don't really know what's available in your area. The big takeaway is that this is all on him. You were frightened and you were attacked. You didn't do anything wrong. He's the bad guy.
We're always here if you need to talk (in a PG-13 manner because rules).
I have got a degenerative spinal condition that my doctor knows about. 3" is a lot to lose in seven months though. Nobody told me to expect anything like it.
Maybe I should make a GP appointment to see if they can tell me what's going on.
The early days were hard for me. Most folks were great but a few were a bit of a pain despite all i could do or explain. Susan is spot on. A bit of time was all it took and then i was just another person and no longer an oddity. Hang in there it seems you are doing everything right! One day you will realize its no longer an issue at all.
thank you Kay have to tell you a little story about Kansas the first time i saw them was not longer after their first album. they and Queen were double billed at my college U of Toledo.
i was working on the college newspaper and guitarist Ric Williams came in our office asking how to get to the dressing room. we told him and as he was walking out, a drunk college kid asked him where the bathroom was and he told him to just stand in the corner of the hall and piss. no onw would notice .
i am crying because the support you ladies are ging me...and it is too early to be coming from the hrt....it is coming from my heart tgat is mending because of you.
Thank you so much and mental hugs,
I am pretty sure I want to start HRT at some point (but therapy first). I am currently not considering bottom surgery but I assume it could possibly change later. I am more like @SaraAW and that I would want to be on HRT long enough to feel/see the results before I commit beyond.
But great question Shay. Thanks for asking!
One of my all time favorite bands. I saw them in concert back in the 70s in their heyday. It was awesome❣️
you are on your way... oncw i bottomed out and realized i need to love myself before i could love others i think the aura of that drew others to me and things got better and thank god for that or i am certain i would no longer be on planet earth. i am so glad to hear your progress.