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Bunny & Bear’s 15 year aniversary gift


jae bear

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My wife and I have our 15 year anniversary coming up on the 30th, and I found what I think are the perfect gifts for her and a card that made me cry at target, it was the last card they had and I have no idea why but it was perfect.

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I found a Swarovski Crystal Bunny and a Pandora bracelet with a bunny, a crystal red heart and a hat box shape with a heart through the top and crystals around the perimeter with an inscription on the side that says happy anniversary...

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That so beautiful! I'm sure she'll love it.

Have a happy anniversary!

 

Hugs.

Brandi

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 Thank you Jani, thank you BrandI!  I’m kind of stuck figuring out what I want to get her for Mother’s Day but I’m sure something will pop up, I just don’t wanna wait till the last second as I have in years past. Oh I guess I should’ve mentioned that the 30th is not April 30 but May 30 for our anniversary. I’m really trying to stay ahead of the curve on all of these things and utilize the time that I have more wisely, as my male self I’ve never been much of a good time manager but for some odd reason Jae the girl seems to be on top of it...

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Jae

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Jeez... I hope I stay married long enough to give her this gift!

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Copied this from my last post but it belongs here too:

my wife and I had a breakthrough and I feel like I can breathe again. She came to me with nothing but love in her heart and explained all of the things that she was worried about and what her intentions were. While it was hard to hear, everything she said was true, honest, necessary, reassuring, she loves me and she’s going to stay and support me even though it’s hard for her to do. I’ve been holding my breath For quite some time now waiting for this to happen. Not that it’s all going to be sunshine and roses going forward, but I now have the baseline knowing she loves me and is staying with me and even more than that will support me because of the former statement. I’m also quite glad that I’ll be able to give her the anniversary gifts I bought as I was really stressed out that our marriage wouldn’t make it to the end of the month. 

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Jae

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Jae, I am glad things are better today. I'm sure you know that she is on her own rollercoaster ride, but it's apparent that she has her seatbelt tightened and is along for the ride until the end, whenever or if ever that comes. Good luck, sweetie.

 

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Brandi

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Very good news to read.  Maybe its time to do an evaluation of where you need to be, and where she needs to be and try to find a balancing point.  It is doable.   Best of luck! 

Jani

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I’m very excited that she’s ready to go to therapy with me as a couple. we went out today to do some shopping together and she made some accessory decisions that really don’t fit me in boy mode, but she told me the decision was no longer mine and I will now wear exactly what she bought me... it’s a pretty good thing that I’m already out at work, it would’ve been hard to explain...

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Jae

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Wow Jae, sounds like you may be out wearing a pretty dress before you know it!

 

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Brandi

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Hi Jae,

I am so glad to hear things have moved in this direction. I wish you and your wife all the best going forward, and a happy aniversary!

 

Lots of love,

Timber Wolf?

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That's so good to hear, Jae. I'm so happy that your wife is being open and sharing with you. That's such an important place of strength to move forward from. Wishing you and your wife all the best! ?

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