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Letters from Junebug

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So, these are a collection of letters that are therapist-adivsed.  Letters from my future self, to my current self.  Some are about self-discovery, familial relationships, or unequivocal self-love.  It doesn't matter where any of us are at in our journey, I think our future self would say, "take a step back, breath in, and stop focusing on the little things so much."

 

"this too, shall soon pass," is most of my inspiration.

 

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