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CaraMC

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Hi all,

 

So very happy to find a transgender forum!!!!!!!!!!!! Hope all of you are having a smashing day so far.

 

I wanted to introduce myself, My name is Cara I knew I was female at the age of 5 and when my Dad found out I got beaten up many time before he decided to leave the family home. I tried to come out in school only to get beaten up with a few bones broken in the process. I then put a fake macho image on but my feelings never went away, I got married in 2010 with no children to a controlling but loving wife and as my feelings grew I threw myself into work to the point when I was realised I need to transition, I was so scared I would lose everything that I attempted suicide (Please speak to someone if you feel this way - never keep to yourself). Now I am in the process of getting private help and on a 3 year waiting list for the NHS.

 

I came out to my employer, family, friends and wife, which was hard but worth it as I feel a giant burden lifted off my shoulders and whenever I am buying, wearing womens clothes and putting make up I am so much more comfortable in my skin!

 

I look forward to talking to more of you, this Friday is the first day I am going to fully transition in public, wish me luck!

 

Take care all and stay safe

 

Cara

 

 

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Hi Cara, welcome to the forum!

 

Thank you for your introduction. Good luck for Friday.

 

Tracy

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Welcome Cara.  I found a great deal of help and support here.  Hope you find the same.

 

Hugs,

 

Charlize

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Hi Cara,

Welcome to Transpulse. I'm glad you're here!

 

Lots of love and a big welcome hug,

Timber Wolf ?

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Cheers Cara,

 

It is great to hear your story.  Good luck on your first time out. ?

 

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Hello and welcome Cara! Nice to meet a fellow Essex girl, too. :D 

 

If you've not come across their site before, https://transliving.co.uk is an Essex based community that I found very helpful when I was still living in Essex. ❤️ 

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Welcome to Trans Pulse, Cara, and thank you for sharing your story with us.  I'm happy for you that you are at least on the waiting list for medical help with transition.  The wait will be more than worth it.  Best of luck tomorrow on your first day out as you.  Please look around the forums and post in any threads which interest you.

 

HUGS

 

Carolyn Marie

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Thanks for all your kind words! 

 

So excited for Tuesday! Friday my clothes were not right but now all sorted!

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