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Dysphoric at times- DID, opposite gender Alters

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Pixie

So I am one of several girls in a DID system (multiple personality thingy), and the body is male... 

 

We girls, the more we connect to the whole, the more we get to be "out" and stuff... feel more and more at odds with our body... 

We're struggling with the dysphoria of being in a male body... we are in a place right now where getting our girlie girl on overtly isn't an option... but we're hoping maybe someone will have some ideas or tips for things to help us adapt, grow, and somehow maybe express ourselves and begin to feel more at home who and what we are... cuz we're like super confused and struggling right now. 

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ToniTone

Hi Pixie and co.! Welcome to the forum. Sorry, I saw your intro post, but it looked like enough folks here gave you the welcome wagon, so I just kinda shy-ed up.

 

I don't have anything beyond an encyclopedia understanding of DID. But part of my identity I consider Two Spirit. Like a duality, there's the once dominant male Tony, who got tired of living this facade and retired from it and took a back seat. And then there's me, Toni!.. It's not the seem, just two parts of the whole. Whatever, I ramble, anyway...

 

I guess as far as expression, maybe start subtle. A little eyeliner, some capri pants and flip flops, medium tank tops or smaller than-shits, neutral and nature tones, or pastels. Verging on androgyny. Subtle things that will be a compromise between allowing the girls to be girls and not overstepping the host's boundaries. Y'all keep an open dialogue about it now! 

 

~Toni

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Pixie

Oh those are some great ideas, thanks... :)

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ToniTone

SORRY (admins and anyone reading)!! 

That was supposed to say smaller *t-shirts!

Not... what autocorrect turned it into. 

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2 hours ago, ToniTone said:

SORRY (admins and anyone reading)!! 

That was supposed to say smaller *t-shirts!

Not... what autocorrect turned it into. 

 

Until you pointed out it didn't say "smaller t-shirts", I didn't even notice. My mind auto-corrected your auto-incorrect. ;)
ROFL

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ToniTone

Lol

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