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I went to my med appointment today and my step-mom and me had a decent conversation. She asked me questions about being trans and I answered sincerely. I told her about how I hated my name and told her I would even be fine with just being called "A" , now I go by A at home :D It feels so much better than my deadname. Also I was telling her about once I am old enough and think it 100% through, I am getting top surgery, she told me to wait till I am 25, but she agreed to let me have breast reduction surgery til then..(Sadly I have a really large chest) That made me so happy, and she said we can talk to my doctor the next time I have an appointment, which is soon. I just had the best afternoon in a long time. Also my med doctor just increased my dose so hopefully my medicine starts helping with other things. I am just so excited to reduce the size of my chest so I won't have to bind as much as I do now, I won't have to slouch my shoulders to hide my chest. I really think my stepmom is coming around.. I am always open for them to come around :))

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That's really great news, Aidan.  I hope things continue to go well with your stepmom.  Please keep us posted.

 

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Carolyn  Marie

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It sounds as if things are improving for you.  Try your best to relax into the process.  if your experience mirrors mine transition is a long term process best enjoyed for each step.  Rushing just didn't seem to get me anywhere faster.

 

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That's really positive news Aidan, I'm happy for you bud! Charlize is right on with her advice, we have all experienced the faster we go the behinder we get syndrome. Like they say in alcohol and drug treatment programs, one day at a time!

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Yay! These things take time for everyone to process. But I'm glad you're seeing a start for her to understanding. ?

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