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Hi everyone ,I am Pauline and brand new to crossdressing and to the transpulse site, I have bought many items to wear already,made a few size mistakes along the way too but have now started getting dressed around the house(not ventured outside yet) and all I can think is ,wow ,why didn't I do this years ago ?

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ShawnaLeigh

Welcome to TransPulse!

I know it can feel liberating just dressing for yourself in private.  I have yet to dress as myself out in public, well nothing anyone can see anyways.  I am looking forward to that freedom.

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pauline
39 minutes ago, ShawnaLeigh said:

Welcome to TransPulse!

I know it can feel liberating just dressing for yourself in private.  I have yet to dress as myself out in public, well nothing anyone can see anyways.  I am looking forward to that freedom.

it feels truly wonderful ,it has been in my mind for quite some time and now I have finally taken the first little step,

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ShawnaLeigh
52 minutes ago, pauline said:

it feels truly wonderful ,it has been in my mind for quite some time and now I have finally taken the first little step,

One step at a time.  One day at a time.  Its all we can really do if you think about it. Might as well try to enjoy it.

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Jackie C.

Salutations Pauline! Pleased to meet you and welcome to the community.

 

I have a long-time friend (since middle school) who's been cross dressing for longer than I've known him. Then again, HE has an older sister so he had cast-offs and a closet to raid. Also his mom's closet. Really a wealth of options when he was small. Now his apartment looks like "a Halloween store." His words, not mine. He's happy as can be.

 

Hugs!

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Alice K

Hi Pauline and welcome!

 

It's great to hear you're having such a liberating time. I live with a person I haven't come out to yet, so I only get to dress as myself in the deep dark of night, when they're asleep. But you're right that it's a wonderful feeling. Glad you're enjoying yourself :)

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TammyAnne

Hello Pauline. Welcome to TransPulse!

Thank you for sharing. I hope you'll find plenty of support and answers here.

It's really been a good place for me.

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Charlize

Welcome Pauline.

Glad you've joined us. Enjoy yourself.

 

Hugs,

 

Charlize

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pauline

thankyou all for your kind comments, I really am at the infant stage of dressing but learning day by day what works for me and what doesn't, make up on its way(hurry up mr postman lol) then it will be lots of practising (and face wipes) so I can start to look how I really want

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Aidan5

Welcome! Hope you enjoy your stay :)

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SaraAW

Welcome to the forums Pauline. Lots of great folks here. 

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Timber Wolf

Hi Pauline,

Welcome to Transpulse.  I'm glad you're here!

 

Lots of love and a big welcome hug, 

Timber Wolf 🐾

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