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soyangela

Hello Everyone,

 

I'm trying to find out if there are any local groups, get togethers, for trans women in the San Diego area or even Socal. This place is great but maybe its my age I'd like to meet\talk to others face to face. Maybe go out for lunch, coffee, even window shopping. I go to a local support group but most are very young. For all you young people please don't take offense to my comment. I applaud your courage and wish I could have had your courage when I was younger. Maybe I'm just complaining. It would be great to know someone local that is closer to my age. We all share a similar journey but us older ladies have other challenges like wives, older, children, etc.I hope I didn't offend anyone.

 

Hugs,

Angela

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Carolyn Marie

A quick review with the aid of Mr. Google brought me to two helpful web sites:

 

https://thecentersd.org/programs/womens-services/

 

https://www.genderadvocacyproject.org/support-social-groups

 

https://jenniferrickardmft.com/services/lgbq-therapy/gender-therapy/trans-resources/

 

The third link has downloadable PDF lists of resources and groups, one of which is specific to adults.  That list seems like it might be what you're looking for, Angela.  Good luck.

 

Carolyn Marie

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VickySGV

These are to the two LGBT centers in San Diego County.  I know some people in one of them who are in the senior years of life.

 

https://www.lgbtcenters.org/LGBTCenters/Center/6532/The-San-Diego-Lesbian-Gay-Bisexual-Transgender-Community

 

https://www.lgbtcenters.org/LGBTCenters/Center/6510/North-County-LGBTQ-Resource-Center

 

 

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soyangela

Thanks for the response ladies. There is a trans support group I attend at NCLRC. I've heard about the LGBRcenters.org. I am very familiar with Jennifer's website.

 

Thanks again.

Angela

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