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My co workers suspect but don't say anything.


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My co workers have been very polite and not said anything to me directly but I think they know. One even wants to do my make up

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Well then at least one knows!!  Have you told that person? 

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Yeah if someone comes up to you and ask if they can do your make-up. I will take that as a sign...No pressure , but come on in the water is fine, but watch out for sharks. Be safe, BE Proud and KICK ASS

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6 hours ago, Mahaney said:

My co workers have been very polite and not said anything to me directly but I think they know. One even wants to do my make up

Not to be biased but if that ‘one’ co-worker is not wearing makeup themselves, I’d pass unless they have an additional part time job at Sephora...lol

 

I agree with the others, they know and likely want you to open up to them. You may have an ally or at least a free makeover. ?

 

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I would be a little suspect on that.

 

Theres factors to weigh up.

 

How well do you know your co workers?

 

Could there be an underling motive to seeing you in your makeup. IE. taking a picture and passing it around your place of work in a light hearted but at the same time derogatory for you way?

 

12 hours ago, Mahaney said:

My co workers have been very polite and not said anything to me directly but I think they know.

 

 

You think they know? Then i suppose for good or bad you will make it more than think they know. Do you even want them to know?

 

Be careful your not making a rod for your own back.

 

is it worth the thrill of having your make up done by someone else outside your closet and most trusted circle of freinds?

 

 

 

Its your call after you consider all of the above.

 

Speaking from my school of life. You never trust anyone who hasn't earned that trust by thought and deed. Have they?

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13 hours ago, Mahaney said:

One even wants to do my make up

 

Yeah, that's probably what they call a "Sign." ?

 

If you trust them though, awesome! I really wish I had somebody handy to teach me at least the basics.

 

Hugs!

 

 

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So I decided to show my co worker a picture I had someone take of me on my phone of me in a white skirt, pink polo shirt, booties, and fucaca lipstick. She was overjoyed. She told me I look better as a she then a he. 

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I say good for you, if they know they know. You can't hide forever, and honestly would you want to? I havent had anyone question if I am or not. I work remotely so rarely see my cohorts. But if someone does ask, I will tell them.

Traci

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My coworker bought me a pair of leopard print leggings so I modeled them for her at work when no one was there.

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