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Hi all,

I'm RJ or Riley or Johnny (I go by Johnny much of the time). I'm a freshman in community college; I'll be twenty in December. I was homeschooled K-12, so college is a big change for me.

I'm short (5'4"). I'm kind of obsessed with the Italian Mafia, mostly due to the work of the late Mario Puzo, and with the 1968 NY Mets.

I'm a figure skater/actor/writer/generally artistic kinda guy who can't draw to save his life. Right now I'm kinda looking for some friends. I'm really shy and have a lot of trouble correcting people who use the wrong pronouns for me-- to the point where I've even gotten somewhat uncomfortable with my preferred pronouns. I have kind of low self esteem, partially due to the fact that I don't seem to be able to pass at all, regardless of my new short haircut, but I'm trying to get over it.

I live with my parents (who refuse to acknowledge that I don't identify as female) and my girlfriend (who is amazing and supportive).

So, yeah. Nice to meet all of you. Hope you're all having a nice week.

- rj

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Guest ~Brenda~

Hey Johnny!!

Welcome to Lauras!!!

Dude, I just got a pizza...pepperoni!! Come in and share it with me!!! Johnny I don't even know where to begin... Just know that you are here in the right place. You are among friends. You are safe here!

Hey.. the Sopranos are on!! Come!! sit with me! they are just starting.

HUGS

Brenda

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Guest catnip_martini

Thanks! I really appreciate the warm welcome. I'm looking forward to hanging out here.

Oooh, pizza. I haven't had pizza in a long time.

- rj

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Guest Donna Jean

Hello, Johnny!

Welcome to the Playground, Hon!

I see that you're face deep in a pizza, so I'll dispense with anymore treats for now!

But, I do want you to make yourself at home and enjoy yourself!

I see that you've met a few of the gals so far..........and Shane....and...................EVAN!

OMG! Are you ever gonna like him!

Kick off your shoes and make yourself at home......

It's so nice to have you.....

HUGGS!'

Donna Jean

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Hello Johnny,

Am I too late for the pizza, pepperoni is my favorite!

So glad that you have found your way here, it is a great place when you need support or just want to read or feel the need to help somebody else, that's why we are all here and so happy about it. :D

Welcome to the family.

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest Zabrak

Welcome to the forum!

I'm in college too - infact I transitioned in college(private college, though)! My classmates I have now are so nice to me - it really turned out well!

I'm also happy to hear another transmen who has a good partner.

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Guest Jean Davis

Hey handsome

Welcome to the playground :P

No need to be shy, were all family here. ;)

Ohh my are you ever the busy one, skating/acting/writing, hopefully you can find some time in your busy schedule for us. :D

We would all love to hear your comments and help with any questions you have.

Hope to hear from you soon

Jean

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