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i have posted other posts such as "going nuts", that was a while back and i am not suicidal., but still am depressed.

recently i found a site called changing room, where she will help to teach me how to become more feminine, and that is a big step forward for me. I am now trying to set up a meeting, and just by doing this I feel there is hope. This is not a solution but I do not feel as depressed, because she said she will teach me how to become more feminine. I know this is not a solution to who I really am, but it is a start.

I am a woman inside, and, i am and hopefully this can help me feel better about my self. I am trying to be who I am

love Nancy Anna

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Guest Katie-Louise

Hey Nancy what a lovely name I am depressed and have been for a very long time and I say go for it anything that will make you feel a least a little bit less depressed grab it with both hands unfortunately I can't think of doing anything that will make me feel better I lack in motivation to even wake up some days. It's great knowing who you truly are I had a feeling of weight being lifted of my shoulders because I can finally be who I truly am and pursue my dreams although it does take a lot of work.

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Nancy,

I agree with Katie. Don't even hesitate with the changing room, it sounds like an amazing opportunity. I know what you mean when you say this chance lifts you up a bit out of your depression - it reminds me of when my brother agreed to teach me how to be more masculin. I hope the meeting goes well, good luck!

- Damian.

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Guest Jami Maree

Hi Nancy Anna,

I believe we all go through seasons in our lives where we just feel stir crazy as if nothing is happening to bring us closer to where we want to be or another words who we want to be.

This time can cripple us or destroy us if we allow it to make us feel defeated as if we can not ever reach out goals or be who we truly are. However Nancy Anna these times in our lives can also be just the ticket we need to move forward gaining the ground we need to over come as we become who we are.

I believe that these times can make us stronger in who we are and get us closer to where we want to be. No I am not nuts here.

LOL.... It is like anything else we start out to do. If we settle for where we are or what we are doing then we never grow or get any where or get better at what we do.

So YES go knock on that door at the changing room and get moving closer to where you want to be. Even if it is not all you had hoped at least you did something and that alone should help bring you some relief. You never know what you will find until you look, I mean who knows what other doors you might find while you are there.

Never settle with what ever happens and keep moving forward.

Let us know how things turn out.

Have a wonderful day!

Hugs

Jami Maree

i have posted other posts such as "going nuts", that was a while back and i am not suicidal., but still am depressed.

recently i found a site called changing room, where she will help to teach me how to become more feminine, and that is a big step forward for me. I am now trying to set up a meeting, and just by doing this I feel there is hope. This is not a solution but I do not feel as depressed, because she said she will teach me how to become more feminine. I know this is not a solution to who I really am, but it is a start.

I am a woman inside, and, i am and hopefully this can help me feel better about my self. I am trying to be who I am

love Nancy Anna

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Guest Nancy_Anna

I just got an appointment for myself at the the salon, and I feel so excited about it, to finally to be dressed as I should be, the more I think about it, the more excited I get.

I have to thank this site. for the info. that lead me to the salon. I was getting very depressed, and saw no way to resolve, or come close to what I felt.

I feel as if, there is something out their that can help. I am a WOMAN.

Love to all

Nancy

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Guest Steph2115

Nancy I'm so happy to hear that you found such a wonderful site. I find it very difficult to think right when I am depressed and I'm glad to see that you found at least a little relief. Always remember that you are number one and to take care of yourself first. Good Luck and remember everyone is here to help and support eachother when we're down :P.

Steph

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