Help! Breastforms Are Confusing Me!

[Guest private1492]

I am looking to purchase some nice/realistic breastforms, but I need them to be the right size and need them to be reasonable in price. Near $100 is about all I am going to be able to pay without getting in trouble with my wife. She has been so supportive, so I don't want to upset her.

The problem is, it seems so complicated. I am really not ready to go into a store and shop for them, that is way beyond my comfort level atm), so this is going to need to be an Internet purchase. So, what type do I get? On eBay I found some that had a number of videos that specifically said they were for crossdressers, and they were of course saying the teardrop were the best type (naturally since that is what they sold). I also have chest hair, is there option to prevent from having to shave? I am fine shaving, but that my wife likes my hair. Of course, I figure if she can get over me having breasts, she can probably get over the lack of hair on my chest.

Then... what size? Everywhere I read says get bigger than you think because once they are under clothes they appear smaller. That said, currently I wear alot of my wife's clothes, should I try to stick to her size? Of course, her clothes are tight now due to my wider chest, so maybe that is not going to be realistic once I get breastforms.

So many questions... What type, what size, where to buy... Overwhelming!

So confused! Help!

-D

[Guest Elizabeth K]

Well - I have both, the ones made for crossdresing, and the one made for enhancement and therfore used by natal womenn (and those of us in transition.)

It depends on what is to be accomplished. I bought some nicely made D cup breasts for the simple purpose of filling out of an unpadded bra with what looked like natural breasts. These were made for placing over a chest that has no existing breasts. I wore this type for a while - paid a about $60 for them. There were just - well - breast shaped. I bought them on the internet.

Then I went on HRT. I have natural development to the point the ones I bought (described above) were really too much and slightly uncomfortable.

I went into a major department store, told the clerk I was transitioning and needed help. She helped me pick out some very nice silicone enhancers - the type natal women use. About $52 and I love then - two sizes up from my newly developed B cup. I was so glad I didn't order on the internet, because I would have bought another kind, which were probably unsuitable.

So do research - but buying in person is not as difficult as it seems. And that was my first 'open' purchase. It gave me the confidence to buy everthing in person.

Hope this helps

Lizzy

[Guest Alissa]

D,

I've been looking around for breast forms also, I happened upon this web site

http://www.janetscloset.com/breast_forms.htm#size

Janet's Closet was a great wealth of knowledge and had videos of their use, care, what to buy and what not to buy. Perhaps there are others I have missed, but I though this site was fantastic.

I'm relativily new going all out dressing, I've been looking at different internet sites for a long time, this is the best place I've found. I can't wait to get my breast forms! I don't want to overdo it or attract too much attnetion so I'm going for a C cup myself.

I hope it helps, good luck. I hope you post something if you get them, I'm interested to hear anyone's story on them.

Huggs

Alissa

[Guest ~Brenda~]

Hi Private,

I guess it all depends on your physique. First, you have to start with a bra that fits. If you do not fill that bra then one has to find what works. For me, a padded bra is enough, nothing more is needed. If you feel that you need breastforms then search online for what will satisfy the look you are going for plus what your pocketbook will tolerate. As far as shaving your chest.... yea, you do want to do that. Bras and chest hair do not mix.

Brenda

[Guest private1492]

Hi Private,

I guess it all depends on your physique. First, you have to start with a bra that fits. If you do not fill that bra then one has to find what works. For me, a padded bra is enough, nothing more is needed. If you feel that you need breastforms then search online for what will satisfy the look you are going for plus what your pocketbook will tolerate. As far as shaving your chest.... yea, you do want to do that. Bras and chest hair do not mix.

Brenda

Well, what I was counting on doing was wearing clothing that covered my entire chest. For example, the following dress (http://tinyurl.com/yatm7xf) is currently on the way. I wanted to get breastforms to fill this out, but I also wanted a realistic feel and maybe even a little bounce. But that said, I have looked a bit more and it sounds like if I stick the breastforms on, when it comes off it is going to "shave" me anyway. So yeah, I think I will be shaving.

This brings me to a side question. The last time I tried shaving, I noticed how unbelievably white I am. I don't tan, never have, I burn then I go back to ghost white. And now I wear sunscreen everywhere. Has anyone used any tanning cream? Any suggestions?

[Guest Alissa]

Hi D,

I wanted to give you a resource I found for breast forms as well as other tips like makeup etc. The web site is called Janets Closet. They have videos of breast form use, care etc. They have a model they put the forms on to show you how it's done and the bra's or glue you need.

If you google Janet's Closet you'll find it without a problem.

Good luck with your new life!

Hugs,

Alissa

[Guest private1492]

Hi D,

I wanted to give you a resource I found for breast forms as well as other tips like makeup etc. The web site is called Janets Closet. They have videos of breast form use, care etc. They have a model they put the forms on to show you how it's done and the bra's or glue you need.

If you google Janet's Closet you'll find it without a problem.

Good luck with your new life!

Hugs,

Alissa

That was actually the videos I saw. So are those good breastforms, and do the videos relay accurate information about the teardrop shape being the best? I am always leary of people telling you the product they sell is by far the best (like they are going to tell you otherwise).

[Guest Alissa]

Hey D,

I came away from that site with a totally different perspective, I took from it the basic information of the differences between breastforms. How some are cheaper but can't be glued, how some will not fit correctly in a bra, etc.

Once you know the differences between the types, then you can make an educated purchase from their store or some other. I might be more inclined to purchase from them since they are providing a service for free to help those in need of some help, like myself. I wish I lived closer to their shop!

Still, I've looked all over the internet, I'm sure there are sites I have not seen but Janet's Closet was helpful to me. As yet I have not purchased anything from them though.. Perhaps price shopping is in order.

I would really like to find a place near me I could walk into and see the things in person.

I wish you the best of luck with your search, and if I get forms you can bet I'll be here talking about it.

Hugs

Alissa

[Guest Roberta1]

An old solution to a better chest profile is to take a pair of kneehighs and fill them with rice to fill out your bra to get the effect you desire.

It's a cheaper, quicker and more easily modified solution. You can experiment with different cup sizes and more or less rice. The weight

factor is almost perfect, and though not as bouncy as the real McCoy, until you know what size looks and feels right, then you can then buy the

silicone breastforms with the confidence that you won't be wasting time or money on something that may or may not suit you.

Sincerely, Robert(a)1

[Guest Jean Davis]

Hi D

Here's the one's I use Here . They're a bit more but worth every penny, the sizing chart is on the bottom of the page. I've had mine like forever, remember you get what you pay for.

And I wouldn't suggest using adhesive unless you had no choice, the adhesive that is safe for the forms doesn't stick very well and the adhesive that sticks isn't recommended for the forms. This is what I use Here , yep it's a pocketed bra. They are wonderful. And you don't have to shave.

LUV

Jean

[Guest private1492]

So, lets say I get the courage to go to a store for the forms... What type of store am I looking for? I have never seen or heard of a store nearby that sells breastforms (though I have never really looked).

[Guest Jean Davis]

So, lets say I get the courage to go to a store for the forms... What type of store am I looking for? I have never seen or heard of a store nearby that sells breastforms (though I have never really looked).

You probably won't find a store that sells them, your best choice is an internet store. You'll get a better price, selection and quality. The site I gave you also caters to women that have had breast cancer so their forms should have a better fit and be a higher quality than some of the other sites..

LUV

Jean

[Guest private1492]

You probably won't find a store that sells them, your best choice is an internet store. You'll get a better price, selection and quality. The site I gave you also caters to women that have had breast cancer so their forms should have a better fit and be a higher quality than some of the other sites..

LUV

Jean

Thanks!

[Guest private1492]

A slight change of approach here... Initially I may not need to go for the quality breastform... To get the right shape/feel... is there a way to MAKE a breastform using Silicone? Since I will be wearing them under full coverage clothing, this may be a way for me to "try" things out, size-wise, etc.

Any thoughts? Anyone try to make a breastform before?

[Guest ~Brenda~]

A slight change of approach here... Initially I may not need to go for the quality breastform... To get the right shape/feel... is there a way to MAKE a breastform using Silicone? Since I will be wearing them under full coverage clothing, this may be a way for me to "try" things out, size-wise, etc.

Any thoughts? Anyone try to make a breastform before?

Well, since most people's access to silicone is via caulking... I don't think so. Some people try balloons, rocks, rice, etc. For me, that is all way too complicated. Sweetie, just get a bra that fits around your back and chest area and has a modest cup size. Don't fool yourself into being a double D.

DD is not in the cards for most of us Get a bra that fits comfortably with an A or B cup size. If you need to fill the cup more, then just use something small like a sock or stockings. I do not advocate stuffing however, simply wearing a bra will help so much in how you feel regardless of your breast size

Brenda

[Guest Emeraude]

Diana,

First, I love your name and avatar. Wonder Woman has always been one of my favorite role models! Secondly, that sweater dress is so cute!

Now, back to the topic, I agree with Roberta that it would be best to start with the bra, filling it with what's on hand, then see how you like the look, before you invest in expensive breastforms. I started with my wife's bras, which are D cup (which caused problems with my wife when she found out, but that's another story. . .) and filled them out with panties. Once I decided I liked that look of that size bra, then I want on Amazon and ordered a mid-range priced set of non-silicon breastforms from DE & Advanced Workouts (never understood the name!). I liked the fairly realistic look and feel (but they leave a lasting "vanilla" odor on you and the bra). They fit normal bras very well. Unfortunately, I also bought a "pocket bra" from suddenlyfem.com, and the breastforms don't work well with them. They sell their own silicon breastforms, so I suppose those fit with their own pocket bras.

Bottom line, when you do invest in the more expensive (and, I assume, more realistic) silicon forms, you might want to buy the pocket bras at the same place, or just try regular bras.

Have fun shopping!

--Emeraude

[Guest Fran]

I purchase my breast forms from the Breast Form store. You can google the site to see the selection and get a phone number. I have always talked to Nancy. She is very helpful. They are silicone forms and are very natural looking and give one the sense of having breasts. They have weight to hold the bra in place and give bounce. I have both bras with and without pockets. I wear both a C and DD cup depending on the look I want and no a DD isn't to large in my opinion. I would shave my chest and use an adhesive. The forms I wear are to heavy for adhesive to hold very well. Enjoy your new breasts.

Fran

[Guest Wendae]

I made my first pair of forms from a nerf ball. Cut in half it worked quite well.

I just recently purchased some(forms) on line but they are too large for the bras I have. Guess I'll have to increase the cup size. Can't send them back now.

[Guest Rebecca Quentin]

I was hoping to buy breast forms this month, but early this morning I've had to take my car to the garage with a blown engine, it will be very expensive to fix apparently and so breast-forms will have to wait.