Almost Two Years

[Guest CharliTo]

So, I just wanted to make a quick topic that in about a few months, it will be two years since I came out.

This is how I was then: Scared, unsure, worried. Just like everybody else who's starting right now is.

Now, I feel like I'm reconnecting with real life again. I interact with people better, and I seem to notice that I get better relationships with people I should be with. Unfortunately, that also made me realize that few friends were not the way I thought they were, but such is life.

I also had a LOT going on during the two years too. I just graduated college, my mother passed away, and I've suddenly lost my jobs at times and had difficulty finding employment. It's difficult, but I think the key is to stay positive and take actions to do things.

The question I had to myself two years ago was "Two years later, am I going to be regretting it?"

my answer, now that I am almost at the two year mark? "Oh heck no"

Just thought I'd share that all with you *hug*

Charli

[Sally]

Aloha Charli,

I am so glad to hear that you are still positive.

You have been through a lot with some really down times but you have chosen to concentrate on the positive events in your life.

You are not only passing very well but are really quite attractive - you are a beautiful, talented and very charming lady.

Congratulations and good luck in all you do.

Love ya,

Sally

[Guest ~Brenda~]

Thank you so much Charli

That was most encouraging to hear.

Much love

Brenda

[Guest angie]

The question I had to myself two years ago was "Two years later, am I going to be regretting it?"

my answer, now that I am almost at the two year mark? "Oh heck no"

Just thought I'd share that all with you *hug*

Charli

Ola Mi Chica,

I hit my two year mark this last May.And not once have I regreted my decision to transition.

I have never been happier in my life bar none.And love the fact that each day is new and

exciting to look forward to living life anew once again. Life is great being a woman every single day.

Hugs Back,

Angie

[Guest Donna Jean]

Char......

I've always been impressed with you. I've seen you blossom for the best part of two years and I think that you are an amazing person...

I've seen you beat hardships and make your way through this maze that we call "Gender" to find your happiness...

I'm proud to be a friend of someone the likes of you.....very proud!

LOVE!

Donna Jean

[Guest DeniseNM]

Charli glad to hear those things from you and that you are still positive. I have seen you go through some hard times and grow so much in the time since I started coming here almost a year ago. Glad you are still being you girl and so happy for you.

Denise

[Guest CharliTo]

Yeah, sometimes I wonder if I coulda had a smoother time if I did one things at a time, but I had to end up trying to start my film career and be trans at the same time. Luckily I'm working within a production house and in various productions but...ehh, like any job goes, (and even transitioning goes) it's not going to happen overnight.

[Guest DeniseNM]

Very true Charli it doesn't happen overnight and as to the doing both at the same time .... when I was in the navy there was a saying "Calm seas never a skillful sailor made". You can make it through all of this girl.

Denise

[Guest amie]

You're to be commended for your courage. Much like anyone who's done so in a similar fashion, of course.

Some of you all have inspired me and I'd like to extend my most sincere appreciation.

Well, that sounds better than the truth anyway. The truth is, or more so the case anyway, is that I've grown rather disgusted with myself over the months after reading so many accounts like yours and feeling like a chicken-**** that I finally grew a spine and took a stand.

Now, and until the lights go out I intend to be nothing but above-board with everyone on the whole thing. I simply don't care anymore. Life's is too short.

But yeah, back to you. I'm sure there have been times when it's felt rather daunting or at least emotionally taxing. Way to go, Charli!