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hello everyone GUESS WHAT!!! i finally did it!!!! with all of your insight and support i finally started on the journey of being myself. I went on this site, told my girl friend, told my doctor and I saw a gender therapist who introduced me to a whole new mindset and opened my eyes that I don't have to hide who I am inside. With all of your help and support pulling me through my struggle...I CAME OUT!!!! I couldn't believe it but I told my mother and she wasn't as upset as I thought (i guess because of her daughter my older sister finding someone getting married and moving out). She said that she will slowly tell my dad and ease him into the news. I hope all goes well and I am totally ready to begin my transformation :) When my dad wasn't home I even dressed in my female clothes for my mom and she said that I am very convincing just need some work :P

IM FINALLY GOING TO BE A WOMAN!!!!

love

melissa.

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Guest Charlene_Leona

Oh how fantastic Melissa, it's so great to hear that you've got your mom's support in this endeavor. I hope your dad will be as supporting as well. You've got a great start and I couldn't be happier for you.

Love and Support

Charlene Leona

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Guest Donna Jean

Melissa.....

Wonderful...

I'm really happy that you've gotten this far...

And the beauty of your post (for me) is the thanks that this site gets from you for the help it's given you in getting started on the most important journey of your life!

And,, you've followed the SOC and gotten to this point.

Now, others will see that it is possible to follow a plan and get to that place that they need to be...

Congratulations, Baby!

LOVE & HUGGS!

Donna Jean

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That is wonderful, Melissa!

I am so happy for you and knowing that you have your mother's support is a prize beyond price.

I just have to correct one thing - you aren't going to be a woman - you are finally going to let the world see the woman that you have always been!

Love ya,

Sally

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Happy Dance for Melissa!

That is wonderful news little sister.I am glad you had the where withall

to finally face the truth of who you must be.Thinking about and anticipating

your loved ones reactions,can be harder than the actual event of totally coming

clean about our real gender.I am happy for you that your momma is so accepting

of the new daughter she will be getting and that you can start your journey at last.

Big Soft Hugs and a Really Big Smile Little Sister,

Angie

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Guest Erin Quinn

Oh wow Melissa, sounds like everything is going spiffy! I'm so glad to hear mom took it pretty well, I can only imagine how great that must feel. As someone else just starting out, I wish you the best of luck sis :) keep us updated as much as you can

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Guest Kayliegh

Melissa - Congrats!!!

Take it slow, though - "baby steps!"

Make your transition easy as possible – don’t get over zealous or you could take a step “backward.”

Hugs! - Kayleigh

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