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How Much Truble Do I Have Going Out Dressed


Guest Jonie

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I can say the first time that I ever went out dressed as a female that ever one could tell that I was a man.I can say I had some laughs at my expanse.I just payed it not attention and let it go.I felt that was the best thing to do.

I did fined a lot of the people that did laughs at me in the gay bar they hated it when I seen them you could see it in there face there first thought is busted.

I can honestly say tho it was my on fault as far as the laughs because I did not know what I was doing yet as far as make up and wigs it looked OK but could have ben better.

I have had a lot more practise with make up and wigs now and I am doing much better.I can say now when I go out nobody even realize it and the ones that did know it has actually told me that I do an excellent job that makes me feel so good to here that from a total strait man.

I never dressed out at work till I got better at my make up.I can say the first time that I did it floored ever one they loved it.shore there was some that would not give me the time of day because of it.I just left them alone and they left me alone they never said anything good to me or bad to me about it so why worry with them. My advice to every one is to practice practice practice and you will get much better.to where you will be left alone. I also the videos and DVDs that are available on here are very help full for passing.check out all that you can it really helps.I know. Jonie

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Guest Donna Jean

Hey, Jonie.....

Let me say that it's great the you're getting better with your makeup, wigs, and clothes!

That's what comes of practice and commitment!

And that so many gave you a positive response at work is also a big plus in the confidence department!

Good on you!

Stick around and post to us....OK?

Good!

HUGGS!

Donna Jean

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That's amazing, Jonie! It's great to hear of success stories like yours.

Keep up the good work and tell us of your adventures. I look forward to hearing

more from you.

Carolyn Marie

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Well Jonie,

All I can say is it gets easier and easier until you don't even think about it anylonger.

Confidence comes in steady doses as we get out and experience life on a daily basis.

I am past two years in RLE/RLT and am veeeeeery comfortable living as a woman.

You have a whole lot to look forward to,and I can see you are doing very well for

yourself all ready.That you are ready for the challenges ahead is plain to see in the

words you have written.I am looking forward to future post as your life unfolds and

you keep growing into your life role more completely.

Hugs Sis,

Angie

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Guest Joanna Phipps

I dont have any where near the experience of Angie as far as RLE goes but in the 6 months I have been doing this I am happy, comfortable and have no desire to go back to being him. Detransition is NOT an options for this gal, Angie is right the more you do this the easier it becomes until you dont even think about it.

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Guest Charlene_Leona

I've been living full time three years now and haven't had a problem going out in public in well over a year. I'm very confident in my appearance and presentation. As long as you walk with style and keep your head held high with a fantastic smile on your face you will not have a problem passing I know that has allot to do with my success.

Take Care

Charlene Leona

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As long as you walk with style and keep your head held high with a fantastic smile on your face you will not have a problem passing I know that has allot to do with my success.

Take Care

Charlene Leona

MmmHmm mine too

Angie

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