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Hello everyone :). This is my first day as a member of laura's playground (just got my acceptance email this morning lol). I was reading a lot of articles on CD's and TG's (trying to always find out more :) and I stumbled on this facinating site :).I hope to enjoy this lovely community in the days to come :) (oh yes..after almost every sentence i do a lil smiley or my famour =/ is something isn't good, hehe).

Anyways, I guess I better get down to buisness :).

17 year old male. Im straight as well..if that even matters for this? (i don't think it does tbh).

Umm...i started CD'ing when i was about 11 and that continued for 2 years. I stopped because I thought what I was doing was wierd and people would make fun of me, so I hated myself for it. 4 years went by, and last year I started CD'ing again (now I understand, thanks to websites like these, that is ok :P) and I love it. I started to shave my legs a year ago ( i got very hairy legs, if left unattended =/). About 5months ago, in the summer, I started dressing up in more kinds of girl clothes (before it was just the underwear's and socks). So I'm pretty much the full deal now, all clothes and makeup (a wig soon if i can sneak it in, this is still a secret to everyone in my family lol).

Now, here's the thing. I dress for both sexual reasons and just..to feel femenin. I've had many thoughts about wanting to be a girl, really.Throughout my life, I've always talked to girls more and related to them more so than guys. I think I might be MTF one day because I really feel femenin when I'm either wearing the clothes, or not wearing anything. When i wear my guy clothes, I sometimes feel femenin, but I always try to show a "guy-face" so people don't pick on me or anything. Like, for example, I can't say aww to things that seem cute or sweet or I feel that people may question me (hence, why I feel more comfy with girls). Sorry if i am rambling on, I just don't know what 2 say =(. I'm really wanting to be a girl because i feel that compared to how guys and girls act, i am wayy more towards the girls. I like feeling soft and femenin and when I act or say things that are considered girly in real life, i feel so out of place because im a guy =/.

All in all..What do you think i'd classify more with? A CD or a TD? I know professional help is needed for this, but I'm still working on telling my mom so =s. But hey, I told a friend yesterday and he was ok with it :P. But yeah, ty for reading/posting and sorry if i rambled on..I didn't know what to say =/. More info available if it's needed :P.

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Hi, Chelsey, and welcome to Laura's.

Let me get you comfy with some hot cocoa and some of Sally's cookies, and have a seat in the Member's Lounge and relax.

Better now?

I'm glad you found us, Hon. You;ve come to the right place for answers. To address your specific question, from what you've said, you could

be either a crossdresser or transsexual. It's not possible to say without know more about you, and anyway its not our place to make diagnosese.

As you said, you really need to talk with a gender therapist.

Don't worry too much about labels, they aren't all that important, I've found. What is important is that you are comfortable in your own skin,

and you are happy and not ashamed of your behavior or your feelings. There is no reason to be. We all have a right to be who we are, or

who we were meant to be.

Please look around the forums and the chat rooms and learn all you can. Ask any questions you want and someone will come by and try to

answer it. We support each other here, and I know you'll make friends.

HUGS

Carolyn Marie

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Guest chelsy123

Ty carolyne :) , I wouldn't mind some cookies atm :)

Sigh, the one thing is that I've thought of SRS, but idk for sure :P but your right about me being right (lol), I should speak to a therapist :P.

Ty for making me feel welcome :)

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Guest Donna Jean

Hey, Chelsy....

Welcome to the forum, Honey!

I'm Donna Jean and I see that my Sis, Carolyn has already gotten you some cookies and coco! Good!

May I have a cookie?

Thanks!

I'm thinking that you're going to really like it here...it seems to be right up your alley!

You know, we talk about all sorts of things here and many people want to know where they fit into things...just like you...

So what I'd like you to do is read lots here...

And then...POST POST POST!

It's really nice to have you here, Hon...

Relax and enjoy!

HUGGGGGS!

Donna Jean

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Guest Jean Davis

Hi honey

Welcome to the family, I'm always happy to meet a new family member. :P

I wouldn't worry too much about a title, many people here find as they learn that their first choice is doesn't fit anyways. ;)

What's in a title anyways, what really matters is what's in your heart. :D

And you won't have any problems finding good hearted people here. ;) They are all so warm and understanding. :P

Once you get to know them you'll se why I consider them my family. ;)

So feel free to hang around and get to know some of them. :P

Just don't have too many cookies, bad for the figure. :lol:

LUV

Jean

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Guest chelsy123

Lol luckily for me Jean, i have the metabolism of a humingbird. It runs in the family, so no amount of cookies will ruin me :). Diabetes, on the other hand, might =s, so I'll take your advice :P.

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