Words I Hate To Hear

[Guest brenda lee]

I find it hard to believe all of the put downs all of us have to listen to ,and they do get by with their rude comments. How we are preverts , idots , and not even deserving humans. I would seriously like to come out to them ask ask what all they do. All of my gay brothers and liesban sisters are the most wonderful people I know. All we want to do is be there for others at any time . We don't seem to be the people who want to hurt others , but rather the ones to love and assist. Thank you all for listening LOL Brenda Lee

[Guest angie]

I haven't ever been called an idiot,a pervert or undeserving human,well,

not to my face that is.(grin) I have been outed,come on to and propositioned,

laughed at,pointed at,talked about with ridicule..And then I found acceptance,

by just being myself and learning to blend in.Sure they may give me second

and sometimes knowing looks,but all they do is smile.I have gained the courage

to look them in the eyes and smile right back at them.And it works everytime,

as you rob them of any power they may have thought they had over you.

Carry yourself with a sure confidence and be proud of who you are,and you

give them second thoughts,by not over reacting.(smile)

Angelique Michelle

[Guest viv]

Hi Brenda,

Fear can be the driver when we are confronted with that kind of hassle , fear of the unknown.

These people just dont take the time to get to know us . Yes , some will be troubling someone else if

not us , those frighten me as they seem to lack basic human nature . Stay well away from those hun.

Other than that, I would go with Angie, Win em over with a smile and goodness. Thats a good plan.

Luv, viv

[Guest foxy]

Hi Brenda,

Fear can be the driver when we are confronted with that kind of hassle , fear of the unknown.

These people just dont take the time to get to know us . Yes , some will be troubling someone else if

not us , those frighten me as they seem to lack basic human nature . Stay well away from those hun.

Other than that, I would go with Angie, Win em over with a smile and goodness. Thats a good plan.

Luv, viv

as viv said, what people don't understand they tend to hate/fear. opinions are just like fish in the sea, millions of them, and the only ones that really matter are the ones we let get to us. i had a guy at my work who was for lack of a batter term, a raving homaphobe. you would be surprised, a little kindness and information can change even some of the most opinionated people

[Guest Joanna Phipps]

I have, as far as know, only faced one direct attack from of all people a self avowed Caholic Lesbian. That was done in email and was met with love and information, it didnt work but it did let her know that I was not going to give her the satisfaction of stooping to her level. One time that my wife told me someone was staring at me I simply turned around and stared back, she got uncomfortable and backed off.

Most of the time I go through my life an business with a slight smile on my face and the confidence of someone who knows who she is, what she is doing and where she is going. If i cant make all of those work, then I fake it. Hold your head high and go through life like you deserve what you are doing and how you are feeling. After all you are a woman, what gg would dare deprive a woman of what she is due.

[Guest Donna Jean]

Brenda Lee.....

I get stared at when I'm shopping and other places and I know that a few of them wonder about me...No problem...

I don't hide, take another route or avoid anything that I want to do out of fear of a crude or rude remark!

I refuse to let idiots drive the buss that is my life...

I have as much right to be free as anyone else on this planet!

And a smile is very disarming! It throws them off!

HUGGS!

Donna Jean

[Guest Cait]

Negative events tend to stick out in our minds. I had friends and folks who had a habit of making sure to call me a male title.

One even went as far as to say " I know lots of young men just like you".

The intent they all had was that I would suddenly just want to be a man, and date some girls and that would be that.

One friend is very much a Lesbian acting person and hates Men and bashes on men. Much like my mother is one of those

types. Anyway, she loves to go into how all men are Gay and how I am a Murderer for being Gay and A Brute Beast and all.

These terms are actually referring to her, anyway...consider the source of these negative comments.

Only a friend would be someone who tried to step back from your situation and be neutral towards the way you feel.

This would apply directly in the case of judging others, as we are all equal on Earth, and maybe some have found enlightenment, but

most are just self-righteous.

I personally think life is getting worse for our community and it is because these folks use us to project their own failures onto.

They falsely believe that by getting rid of us, or being cruel to us, God or their own personal karma will be given positive points

and their own personal short comings and failures somehow will mysteriously no longer count.

That is the real reason they don't like us, they need us to cover up the reality of their own failures.

That is why we should consider just working on ourselves and trying to be kind and loving towards these haters.

I try to see myself in other people, and that's what our critcs can't do---they can't put themselves in our position.

They can be dangerous, and they can be mean--but you are always dealing with a small child-like mind.

Chances are they are quite cruel to themselves and persecute themselves when left alone.

Just my observation that we serve as a vehicle for people to hate on.

Try to blend in and ignore them.

Happy Turkey Day,

Katie

[Guest Charlene_Leona]

I use to get upset when I would hear people around me laughing, I thought they were laughing at me. I have come to realize that others out with their friends may not be laughing at me but the are laughing among themselves at stuff that doesn't involve me. I don't let others bother me any longer with taunts and laughs, I just hold my head high give them a great big smile and walk through life as if I own it and I do. You have to have the same attitude to make it through transition and all the negativity others throw at you. If you can do this you can make it to be the best girl or guy the world will know.

Love

Charlene Leona

[Guest Cait]

Eh, i feel much more proactive and mean than most of you. I have no respect for modern society and I believe they are all

merely projecting their feelings onto me. I've never been in trouble with the law, yet many of these other folks have.(my critics)

Not that I have a much higher opinion of the law. The job of the government is to protect and enforce my rights. They have no job

actually telling me what my rights are. As an American citizen, the old crusty useless historical documents like such nonsense as

"The Bill of Rights", and "the Constitution" over ride all figures public and private.

To put it simply, my neighbor is to love me as him or herself and can make value judgements on me, but as far as harming me and acting a

fool, that sort of thing has no place in modern life. The Constitution was suppossed to ensure the right to persue personal happiness, the persuit

of liberty, and freedom from religious persecution.

The somewhat nutty founders of my country rebelled against their own government to get out of taxation and religious oppression.

The government is to stay out of my religion, my money, my freedom, and a host of other things they seem to have an inability to do.

So, against that backdrop, your dealing with people who a living a lie. We have no laws and we have no rights.

The actual people of America can pass laws, not talking heads.

It's really no one's business if i dress like a girl or not.

It also is none of their business if I have my Gender Reassigned.

It only enters into the legal demain when i have broken the law.

What law can anyone break if the fundamental laws of a Universe and country are broken?

If the plain simple writing of the Constitution cannot be properly inturpreted, what hope does anyone have?

The laws of my country nowhere state ANYTHING about sexuality or Gender.

Because there are no laws against it in there.

My community and church can say they do not agree with my way of life and not associate with me.

And that is about it.

and that's exactly what happened on a historic level.

Old man was a drunk...people avoided him.

Then this murky area enters where the law must step in to defend my rights form a bully.

Why, if everyone is so holy in america, do i need the law to defend me from my neighbor?

Is my neighbor so morally void, he cannot serve his own heart?

These cops and laws and officials are unconstitutional and illegal.

They tax and harass us, all the while declaring they represent my rights.

No, I represent my rights. Good samaritan Laws had to be passed to enforce passers-by to help their neighbors in distress!

We are dealing with a hypocritical society. No one is coming to their rescue when they are in our position one day.

This name calling and all is quite childish, and once again there is no law to prevent us from lawfully living our lives.

Marriage laws are probably illegal. Why Marry someone whom you will divorce. See?

Alot of these laws are there because people have forgotten to just live right.

and the tax man uses these loopholes to make a buck for himself.

But the people are too weak to ever lash out at the International Bankers and money powers that run this evil world.

They have to live in a thousand illusions and project their guilt on us, and others.

They have a massive US prison system.---not right--they are guilty for not speaking against this--it weighs on their conciousness.

This country does not feed the poor and hungry, although it is rich.

This country has a bad habit of going around the world and harassing people.

(even after it has admitted to basically wrecking all of south america)

Your dealing with a bunch of nasty people in America who live in a lie.

If they wander around the Earth messing with everyone, like the cold, unforgiving arms of babylon herself,

is it any wonder they do not defend you?

why be surprised when you are harassed?

all day long the TV broadcast programs teaching people to spend money they don't have on stuff they don't need

to hate certain people for being of a certain way of looking

The society is a cup cake society and it constantly shows you images of Hitler and how bad he is all the while

the rulers of this world are cup cake's.

They practice Eugenics, Corporatism, murder, Prison experiments, and a host of the very same stuff the cup cake Party did.

The truth is this is a cup cake world and that the cup cake party was merely the costume the ruling class put on in WW2 to kill us for

World government.

Our leaders think they are of a holy bloodline, and they are not.

They want to rule the world, which they will, until they get goofy and blow themselves up.

Evil is stupid.

The very idea we threaten the world and deserve to be treated badly and are perverts and are undeserving of love or shelter or food

flies in the very face of the Anti-cup cake programs, run on the Hitler channel and the discovery channel.

Such Luminaries of the One world governement type think we are all animals who need to get out of the way of their goofy

"Jurassic Park" type fantasy.

Add "The Island of Doctor Moreau" to that.

You might answer to God, if you believe in him, but the rest of the yahoos on this planet have no morals about them and are usurpers and villians of the most

vomit worthy type. To say they can tell you what is right is absurd. They don't know. That's why the have so many laws, because they are

too forgetful of helping others to remember how to stay within the lines, and treat you as they wish to be treated.

The government CAN do things to you. When they take action, of any kind against you they are breaking the law.

They are a criminal cartel, and only hold up your rights when violating them.

You can develope an opinion that these people are the good guys and saying "bad things" about them is wrong.

Although on prinicipal, they operate no different than the Mafia.

It's the people who are to blame. They loved the life that Capitalism brought them, and never questioned the wars and lies.

Now, they try to legislate more laws, because once again, the cup cake-corporatism/Banker run world is TOO GREEDY to pay for our care.

The United Nations and other groups have no authority to legislate morality and have none of their own to speak of.

I only mention all this as a reality check that no one has the right to tell you how to live your life.

Goober Rothschild or the Queen of England or a group of these Vampires has obviosuly gotten themselves

back in control of our country.

Otherwise, this system of laws in America is designed for the People.

It boils down to the people every time.

Richard Nixon and Henry Kissinger only cared about themselves.

see?

they are acting out of self interest.

it was their job to protect US.

it is your neighbors job to protect you.

What manner of persons are we really dealing with here?

Are they, in their murders and con games able to tell us how to dress?

How shall I live then, kissinger?

Is it ok with you if I have a sex change?

Carpet Bombing Viet Cong women and children is ok

Gulf War syndrome is ok

Agent Orange is ok.

See, the society has gone bad and our government is the mafia.

As a side note, certain groups i won't name, and the Mafia got ran out of their country for making the people disgusted.

That's right, on a historic level, groups that bully others are hated and fought against, and when possible, run out of town.

People who are different serve as the antidote for a troubled mind.

The people need a scape goat.

They need to hate the homeless

until the bankers make them homeless, then what?

We simply are cogs in the machine of America to distract our neighbors form their job, which is to ensure peace and protect us.

When you are bullied, you are being in the vortex of that historic evil.

We don't even have Vlad the Impaler as King, at least he would attempt to defend his own country.

Our enemy is right here in the USA, and it is our leaders--they do not represent us, and they are criminals.

They are attempting to trick you into thinking they are good people, they are not.

It is everyman and everywoman's job to defend and love their neighbor as themselves, not to worship money.

Our leaders need to be put on airplanes and sent to Iraq, Iran, and Israel to fight their wars for blood and oil.

none of these people are fit to serve, and i said serve, because they are not like JFK.

He at least stood up to the bankers.

that's why he is dead.

It's always going to return right back EVERY time that REALITY is not what is appears.

Our Reality has been created for us by bankers and kings and it isn't real.

They are evil little money grubbers.

They worship money, and like the Merchant of Venice they half-heartedly care about their children. (you and me)

But, don't expect it to get any better.

The society has gone bad.

Katie

p.s. you can ban me or get offended if you must. I render unto Caesar...he taxes my inheritance right into his pockets,

while my Daddy worked and worked for Caesar, and I wondered where he was while sitting in your communist schools!

[Guest foxy]

ok i ant gona quote ya cait cause i fear if i did it might have to make a hole another page devoted to just one post. its basically life, the way things are run and done are simmiller around the world, all it takes is 1 person who is able to talk and make their opinions heard and for some reasons millions follow, and disregard their own opinions of right and wrong for fear of being an outcast. so in the end, we are better off then them. we are not scared to be who we are. to tell the world "hey this is me, if you don't like it, that's your own problem". see we are the sheep who saw the grassy meadow and beautiful dasiys on the other side of the fence, we jumped that fence and danced in those daisys while the rest of the world was to scared to be different, to be themselves.

in the end, its watter off a ducks back, if it dose not kill us it only makes us stronger