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Meeting The Exes New Man


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Howdy and Goood Day,

My youngest,my ex and her new man came over last night.

I had just finished making supper when my youngest called

to say they were coming by.So of course I invited them to eat.

Funny thing is,I know my exes new guy.Have for twenty seven

years.Alll I know is he treats her with the love and respect she

deserves,and all I have wished for her since we split,a good man.

When they came in,both my ladies gave me a big warm hug and

a kiss on the lips.Kenny didn't know how to greet me.First thing out

of his mouth was,"Hey D---." Wrong again boy.I told him there hasn't

been a D in a looooong time sir.Then he said he wasn't sure wether to

shake my hand or give me a hug.Being as I was dolled with full makeup

and hair styled and looking very womanly,he decided a hug was appropriate.

See,I hadn't seen him in many many years.But knew from my ex that he was

coming around expressing interest in her.Smart lady that she is,she made him

wait and prove himself before she decided to have a relationship with him.And,

wonder of wonders,she asked if it was all right with me first.Isn't that something.

They stayed for hours with all very relaxed and my ex and daughter gendering

me right,even correcting themselves when they made a mistake.The only thing

that I can see hurts is when SRS is brought up.That will be the final fare thee well

to my old self,and something they are not looking forward to,but are making the

mental adjustment to, just like transition and me living as and becoming a woman.

Our personal healing has taken years.But with all that they have shown me in the

last few months,is worth all the emotional pain and isolation I had to endure.

Warm Soft Hugs,

Angelique Michelle

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Angelique Michelle,

You have come a long way in your life and things are really coming into place for you and it seems that your family is willing to adjust even to the SRS when the time comes.

I do want to correct one point - you mentioned living as and becoming a woman - you have always been a woman sweetheart - that's what caused all of our trouble in the first place you are becoming 'outwardly' a woman.

Congratulations - you have a wonderful support group now.

Love ya,

Sally

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That's a great story, Angelique. That your family is so supportive is a great gift and I can see that it

means a lot to you.

I'm glad to see your spirits on the rise. I hope they stay up there for a long time.

HUGS

Carolyn Marie

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Guest Donna Jean

Angie....

That's so cool......

That you have so many good things in your life now and most of all, a supportive and loving family...*sigh*

And the Ex's new beau? You handled that with style...good on you!

You have many blessings......you're a very lucky woman!

HUGGGGGGGS!

Donna Jean

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Oh, Angelique Michelle,

It sure looks like everything you've ever wished for is finally falling into place. I'm sure that during many of those long, lonely nights you spent getting to where you are now it seemed as though it might never happen.

You've talked on many occasions about how important your family is to you and how you pledged "to be there" for your Ex if the need were to arise. If ever there were a success story written about a journey, surely you'd have to get consideration for top billing. Wow, girlfriend.

To have a guy you know (meaning he's a good guy, of good character) working on winning your Ex and to have her call and ask for your blessing in advance, has to be the ultimate in a winning outcome for everyone.

Girl, you've got me crying now. I'm so happy for you and you're such an inspiration to me and many other sisters. I kept the girl locked up because I didn't believe in my heart it was possible to transition and be successful and happy. You have been one of the sisterhood here at Laura's that has helped to pull away enough of my man pieces to let her get a glimpse of life. Yes, life.

Angelique, you are starting to wrap up an important part of your transition and do it with pride and success. You're in a position to smile brighter than ever with pride. You clearly demonstrate the value of a positive attitude, unwavering determination and an unwillingness to give up.

Lady Angelique Michelle, I love you.

A hug of warmth, love and joy for you,

Babygirl Yvonne

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Guest jillianT

Angelique,

What a wonderful uplifiting story. I cannot imagine how far you have come to have mature relationships such as this! As I read, I thought of the novel Trans Sister Radio... Not that I am saying you are moving in that direction....Have you all read the book?

Happy Saturday..stay warm all.

Hugs,

Jill

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