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Guest HaidyBearxx

well, i just officially joined! I just want to say hi to All!

Im an ftm. Pre op pre t the whole jazz.

I am feeling really lonely and lost right now.. My parents wont let me start the therapy sessios to get the T treatment.

They said "im a bad girl and my bad behavior is escalating and its not because im a boy because not all boys get in yrouble with policemen"

Well technically ive never been arrested before, ive just had to talk to them. Hahaha

Anyways >.>

I only know one other transgender, who is Also ftm. But hes in australia. ):

OH right. Im from the U.S. Greetings from Indiana. D:

I am so glad i found this site. I have. Ore people to talk to, ask questions,and all that other stuff.

So yeah!

Um... I think thats it?

Im a teen..

They said:"yeah therapu sounds like a good idea. Because we were considering..well, oaklawn(mentL hospital) bt i am glad you are now going to stop being such a lying decietful morally wrong little girl. We miss you, baby"

They wont stop cling me little girl or mija(sp?means daughter in spanish) anf chick-a-dee. .-.

Any help on trying to getem to let me start therapy For The Right Reasons?? Cuz i cant stand this much longer.

Oh! Sorry Bout typos. Im on my iPod and *currently* i cannot fix em. ^^' haha

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Hi, HaidyBear, and welcome to Laura's. Can I just call you Haidy?

Sally will be along shortly with her snack cart. For now, let me just say that this is a great place

for you to hang out, learn all about TG issues, explore your interests, find friends, and be yourself.

The Teen Forum is great, as are the Chat rooms so be sure and look them over. You are welcome to

explore and post in any of the forums.

You won't have private message capabilities until you have posted five times, so POST some more, OK?

Please do me a favor and read the Forum rules too. There is a link at the top of most pages. You need to be

sure and check your language at the door, because we won't post anything that is foul, and that includes words

that have a letter or two ** out. OK? Thanks!

Enjoy your stay and learn all you can. Being transgender can be complicated and stressful, but we are here to h

help you.

Carolyn Marie

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Guest HaidyBearxx

Hi sally, yeah yu can call me haidy. ^^ Haiden is my name of choice. My *supportive* friends think the name fits me well when i become a boy. :D

And right. Foul language = no-no. Lol. Ill make sure i keep it in check.

Hmm i migh coast into the teen forum. :3

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Hi HaidyBearxx ,

<<curtsey>>

Welcome to Laura's Playground.

Please feel free to come over and chat sometime.

The Chat room does require another registration that is separate from from your forums one.

Please read the chat room rules before coming in, and expect a short interview with one of the chat room moderators.

One of the things that they will ask you is if you read the rules. :)

We have FTM meetings -Mon & Fri 8pm est, and you are welcome to attend.

We all look forward to seeing you.

:wub: vanna

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Guest HaidyBearxx
Hi HaidyBearxx ,

<<curtsey>>

Welcome to Laura's Playground.

Please feel free to come over and chat sometime.

The Chat room does require another registration that is separate from from your forums one.

Please read the chat room rules before coming in, and expect a short interview with one of the chat room moderators.

One of the things that they will ask you is if you read the rules. :)

We have FTM meetings -Mon & Fri 8pm est, and you are welcome to attend.

We all look forward to seeing you.

:wub: vanna

Awesome! Ill definitely check it out. But could you mYbe give me a linknor soemthing? Im. Kind of a dunce when it comes to surfing big sites or the web...lol

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Hello Haidy!

Well, I just got here with the snack tray, I hope you like pizza - most guys about your age just love it.

I also have some cold drinks to go with it.

Just sit back and relax when the smell of pizza spreads through the playground all of the friendly members will come by to say hello (in case they are more hungry than friendly, grab an extra slice of pizza)

I am glad to have you with us, this is a moderated site as Carolyn told you, we keep it PG-13 a lot of teens and parents of younger TGs are reading and we don't want to upset the parents they have a good deal of new things to deal with already.

So welcome to the family.

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest HaidyBearxx

Uumm so yeah. A couple things... How do i get into the cha room? There are bunch of links and im not sure if im supposed to click one or if im not seeing it... I see a thing that says "whos chatting" with a list under it...

So yeah im lost there.

And yeeaayyy pizza!! Im so hungry. -takes two slices- :3

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Hello HaidyBearxx,

Welcome to Laura's Playground. At the top of every page, you'll see the word chat in the "Gray bar". Click on that. That should take you to the Chat page. You'll have to reregister but you can still use the same username and password that you use here. You'll need to update to the latest version of Java and you'll have to unblock popups for this site. Good luck. Enjoy your pizza. :)

MaryEllen

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