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It's a process, it won't all happen over night but it will happen. It's a process, it won't all happen over night but it will happen. It's a process, it won't all happen over night but it will happen. It's a process, it won't all happen over night but it will happen. It's a process, it won't all happen over night but it will happen. It's a process, it won't all happen over night but it will happen.

I feel like a 4 year old who wants ice cream noooooooooooooooow

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Guest Donna Jean

LOL!

Hang in there, Baby.....

It does seem to take forever to get it all started, but once all of the hoops are jumped through, it becomes smooth sailing!

And before you know it you'll be like me and 10 months along!

It DOES happen!

Love

Donna Jean

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Guest nymphblossom

It's hard to resist the sense of urgency, the need to correct something now that we have made a committment to fixing it. Although it seems like things are moving at a snail's pace, it really does happen rather quickly from the perspective of a lifetime.

Like Donna Jean said, hang in there, baby, Friday's comin :)

Blossom

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Guest HaidyBearxx

Uugghh i know!! Its like, pace-around-the-room impatience!! Im an impatient little boy as is, but, if things go Correctly, i wont srart anything for another five months!!! Ggrraawwrr.! It actually only takes 3-4 months, but im waiting till like the last week of school to start anything. New school year new boy!! Thats my plan anyways. ;P

Hang in there! Well get thriugh this!! :D -gives a rice krispy treat-

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Patience is wonderful in theory, but dang hard to achieve in practice. You will be OK, Sam. You'll get to your destination.

I promise. :)

Carolyn Marie

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Guest AshleyRF

I hit my 1 year mark in 2 days. I've noticed a great deal of changes already and I fully expect to have many many more over the next few years.

Be patient and good things will come.

Hugs

Ash

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Guest Joanna Phipps

"I hate to hear, although I understand that in this case it is right, 'patience all things in their own time'. There is this part of me which asks why should I wait, after all it has been 50 years of waiting, don't they, can't they, won't they understand the need, the urgency. The corollary to that is, yes you have waited 50 years, so what is another two or three months. This second, much slower, more balanced path is the one I find myself walking not only for the sake of my inner peace but for the peace and sanity of those around me." (Aen of Transition, ©2009 Joanna M. Phipps)

I think a lot of us go through that phase of wanting it all and wanting it now. Unfortunately if you push your therapist/team to do things on your schedule they might push back and put you, like they did me, onto RLE with NO hormones. I survived it but it wasnt easy, at least not at first. Patience grasshopper.

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