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Guest EmoNinja

I'm 16, pansexual, a male and I'm confused about who I am. I don't feel like a boy or a girl and I feel like my body doesn't exactly "fit"...I don't hate my penis...but I do have a weird feeling about it that I can't really describe. I'm really confused and scared and I just want it to all go away.

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Guest Donna Jean

Hello, Honey...

How are you today?

Welcome to the Playground.

You seem to be in a bit of confusion and I totally do understand that!

So, to start, let me get you some hot coco and a plate of Sally's cookies to make you feel welcome!

Then you can sit in a big chair and kick off your shoes.

We're a moderated site to keep it safe and I'd like to ask you to read the forum rules once..link at the top of most pages!

I'm sure that you'll get plenty of answers from some really wonderfull people that may help you to get a better feel for things that you are feeling....OK?

I want you to just relax and enjoy!

LOVE & HUGGS!

Donna Jean

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Hi, EmoNinja, and welcome to Laura's.

First, let me tell you that you are not alone in being confused and scared and unsure of who you are and where

you're going. I know you want lots of answers and you want them NOW. But just relax a bit, OK?

You don't need to fit yourself into a box or put a label on yourself. Label's aren't important.

How about you look through the Teen Forum, and the Androgyne Forum, and read some of the other topics

that relate to how you feel? That should lead to questions you can post, or your own topics, and then you'll

be on the road to figuring things out.

One thing we frequently recommend is a gender therapist, or even a general therapist, to help you

explore your feelings. Being 16, I know that there are complications involved in that, like having to

go through your parents. Let us know more about your situation and then we can provide clearly

advice.

I wish you luck. Please do post more!

Carolyn Marie

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Ummm...how do I edit my thread to give it a better and more discriptive name + a description?

You can't edit your post, but you can start a new one, perhaps in the Teen or Androgyne forum, with

a more specific title.

Carolyn Marie

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Hi EmoNinja,

<<hug>>

Welcome to Laura's Playground.

Please feel free to come over and chat sometime.

The Chat room does require another registration that is separate from from your forums one.

Please read the chat room rules before coming in, and expect a short interview with one of the chat room moderators.

One of the things that they will ask you is if you read the rules. :)

We have Andro meetings -Wed 7pm est and also Teens meetings Sat 1pm est & Sunday 8pm est, and you are welcome to attend.

We all look forward to seeing you.

:wub: vanna

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