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For the longest time I have always been sexually attracted to feminine men...

So much so that my first crush was at the age of five when I saw Marilyn Manson in his video for The Dope Show.

I thought he was the cutest thing ever.

In the past few years my attraction has only grown...to where my ideal partner is male....

But dressed in the pinkest frilly skirts and cutest tube tops, dresses, high heels.

Wears flowery/fruity smelling pefume...Wears make up...Has medium to long length beautiful hair...

This is what I'm VERY EXTREMELY attracted to...

And if I decide to transition....

I would be that way...or I would most deffinitely seek a partner like such..

I'm wondering if I'm odd or whatever for this... -____-"""

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Guest ~Brenda~

Dearest Evan :)

It's me again. Now dearest, there is nothing wrong with you. Your sexual attraction to the type of person you like is just fine. There is nothing wrong with that.

We all like certain types of people, that is just who we are.

Don't be ashamed at all for your sexual preferences.. OK dear?

HUGS

Brenda

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Guest ChloëC

No, Evan, you're not odd. Unless of course we assume every last single person in the world is odd, which we really are, but then that word completely loses any meaning, doesn't it. You're just you, and your likes and dislikes are your own. There is nothing odd about wanting to be with someone who you care about and who cares about you. That's what most are searching for and the lucky have already found.

Chloë

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Evan, this is one place where you know you can talk about your preferences and not have anyone coming down on you (well, as long as you don't violate the site rules, anyway).

You should be happy being whoever you want to be, and being attracted to whoever you desire. We are all part of the human race, and that includes everyone.

Carolyn Marie

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Guest childofwinter

Desire and attraction to another adult human being is not wrong in any way, and it shouldn't be considered as such. Your preference is something personal to you. Don't worry if you think other people might find it odd, because all humans are a bit odd in some way.

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Guest Joanna Phipps
No, Evan, you're not odd. Unless of course we assume every last single person in the world is odd, which we really are, but then that word completely loses any meaning, doesn't it. You're just you, and your likes and dislikes are your own. There is nothing odd about wanting to be with someone who you care about and who cares about you. That's what most are searching for and the lucky have already found.

Chloë

Not really because if everyone is odd then odd becomes normal.. what then is odd? Some of us had and the search starts again, once transition and sexuality come into play..

Evan dont worry about who you are attracked to just be you and love who you love

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Guest CharlieRose

Not to get too non-PG-13 here, but there's a difference between a preference and a fetish. I think you're trying to belittle your own feelings by calling them a fetish, which is silly because everyone has preferences, and they're just part of what makes everyone unique. It's not weird, it's you.

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