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Last installment of 2009!!!

OMG this has been a long week. My father had knee surgery right before we were to come and stay at his house so my step-mother recommended we stay with my brother's family but some friends of ours put us up at a motel near their house which caused all sorts of weird little drama...not enough to make a big thing of, but enough to make a little thing of and little things get big when there are so many of them (or they get big when you feed them estrogen and they are growing on your chest...another story for another time, dear ones).

You know you're becoming a girl when:

Your brother gives you a game of torment from your childhood as a gag gift and you have to laugh-cry to cover the hurt-cry...

Your friend makes a hardbound book of pictures she has collected of your children and you cry uncontrollably in front of your friends...

You ooh and ahh over some beautiful thrift store purchases...

You listen to the long stories your friends parents tell that used to be a drag and are now really interesting and you care about all of their little things...

(this list will continue...)

So I promised myself I wouldn't talk about the pain in my chest (so I'm not talking about it, see?).

What I really want to talk about is the lack of slowed growth of my body hair. I went to town with the epilator yesterday and it hurt so much, especially on my chest. They say it gets better but it doesn't get any better (maybe on the legs, but not on the chest and torso, dear ones). Just a lot of hurt but I hate hate hate stubble on my chest and epilating is the only way to get rid of it for a longer time (yes, I could wax, but I haven't figured out how to do that to myself just yet and the epilator is cheaper and cleaner...waxing is too messy and sticky). I know I have to be patient about all of this, but the hair thing is the one thing I really want to happen NOW and, of course, a watched pot never boils (which is just not true, it does boil...physics are entirely insensitive to the human eye's ability to stop their processes). I think hair removal is the worst part of this. I hate hair removal, but not as much as the hair that has been removed and needs to be removed. Uggh!!! Not to mention the hair that is not growing where I want it to, but that is another story...

A little more visible vellus growth at my temples. I will wait and be patient...

Thank you all so much for being here and reading and writing. Laura's is becoming a big part of my transition...a place I can come to get what I need to get off of my chest (except the hair :rolleyes: ). I love you all!

More to come...

Gin

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Guest Donna Jean

Gin....

That had me in stiches.....

I truly hope that I'm not being insensitive to your feelings, but ROFL......

Good luck, Honey...

I hate those dang, evil epilators, too!

Hee Hee.....

Donna Jean

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Hi Gin,

Love your updates, and like Donna Jean , have to say I grinned a little.

Epilator, the" word" actually looks tho it came out of a horror movie , ouch!!

Just a thought Gin, ever heard of Sugaring??? its another way of hair removal.

Might be worth a ""google"" Cant wait till your next *installment* luv,viv :)

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Hi Gin,

Love your updates, and like Donna Jean , have to say I grinned a little.

Epilator, the" word" actually looks tho it came out of a horror movie , ouch!!

Just a thought Gin, ever heard of Sugaring??? its another way of hair removal.

Might be worth a ""google"" Cant wait till your next *installment* luv,viv :)

Oh, Viv,

Sugaring sounds so...sticky. I have this very negative reaction to sticky. I've tried to train my children to avoid stickiness (their mother laughs at my ministrations...I will instill a good healthy anti-stickiness in them soon!).'

I'm weird, but I'll take pain before sticky ;)

luv

Gin

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Hi Gin,

Just a thought Gin, ever heard of Sugaring??? its another way of hair removal.

Might be worth a ""google"" Cant wait till your next *installment* luv,viv :)

OMG! I just did!

Sugaring is a method of epilation that is similar to waxing,[1][2] and, for that reason, is "often called sugar waxing or Persian waxing."[3][4]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sugaring_(epilation)

Dang...this just keeps getting worse and worse....YUCK!

DonnaJean

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Dang...this just keeps getting worse and worse....YUCK!

DonnaJean

Yuck, indeed!!! I don't want to paste cookie dough on my chest and legs to get rid of unwanted hair....yich!

Gin

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