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Guest sarah f

yesterday I started to wear my bra to work and nobody could tell as far as I know. I am wearing it again today with a little tighter shirt this time and already had to stretch out in front of someone without them noticing. I feel like the straps show when I bend over or stretch out but have not had anyone ask me what that was yet. There is no turning back now.

happy bra wearer,

sarah f

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Guest Elizabeth K

Wear colored or patterned shirts - I also like the sports bras as they usually don't have those adjustment clips that can show.

Or

Just do it!

Lizzy

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Guest NatashaJade
Wear colored or patterned shirts - I also like the sports bras as they usually don't have those adjustment clips that can show.

I also wear a sports bra...the clips would be a dead give away. On top of everything, I wear a vest almost every day. Vests are very cool, have extra pockets and hide a lot that might need to be...hidden ;)

Gin

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Nice.

Sometimes I switch it up and wear a nice pretty cami instead of a bra. They make bras with hard to see clear straps I heard, though I've never tried those kind myself. You can also buy just the clear straps separate as well, then you can use them on your favorite bras. They sell them on Amazon keyword "clear bra strap". I thinks I'll probably buy me a set. :)

Love

Vivian

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Guest nymphblossom

Sarah, are you at a point in your transition that you are OK with people knowing you are wearing a bra? It is important to realize that although they may not say anything, people WILL notice.

Blossom

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Hello Sarah,

Well done hun, if you want to wear a bra then why not. Soon you will not have a choice

as when your bust develops you will need to reign in those puppies dear!!!LOL.. Take heed of what

Blossom is saying though, sooner or later someone will notice so you might have to be prepared re

what you are going to say , that day will come no matter where though. Best of luck with this *new

development*hehehe,,,,,luv,viv :)

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Guest Elizabeth K
Sarah, are you at a point in your transition that you are OK with people knowing you are wearing a bra? It is important to realize that although they may not say anything, people WILL notice.

Blossom

Yes - Blossom is right! They won't say anything to your face.

Lizzy

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Guest Miss Aeryn
Yes - Blossom is right! They won't say anything to your face.

Absolutely. Be prepared to (or have been already) be work's No.1 gossip of interest. And the possibilty of losing your job. Or being passed over for promotions. It all depends on which point as Blossom says you are in your transition. The fact that you are trying to flaunt even more each day would be sending a lot a red flares up - again depends on your progress.

People will not say anything to you. Outside of your earshot it'd be Open Season.

Aeryn

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Guest sarah f

I appreciate everyones comments. I am fortunately their boss so if they talk behind my back then so be it. I am really trying to hide it but if someone notices it will make it all that easier later when I finally do come out. Then they will say they already knew I was wearing a bra. At least that is what I have told myself over and over again. If I can't start just this one thing than how am I going to be able to continue on with my transition? I figure as long as I don't flaunt it then maybe they will accept me for who I am and always was and that is their friend in the end. Thanks again for all of your support and concerns.

Love,

Sarah F

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Guest Anna_Banana
I appreciate everyones comments. I am fortunately their boss...

I LOL'd when I read that. *high five* This story is on a whole different level now that you've mentioned that you're the boss!

Sarah: 1 Employees: 0

.Anna

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Guest Lizzie McTrucker
Cool.....

And now you have a place where you can store your notes, erasers, paper clips and other misc. stuff!....lol

Good luck, Honey!

Donna Jean

You're giving away my padding secrets again... <_<

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