Reoccurring Dream! Oh Noez

[Guest Neuro]

I've always wanted to be a guy. I think like one, etc. This introduction is not really necessary, I am FTM.

But I've been having these trippy dreams about wearing girls clothes.

Such as, suddenly having a really nice womans body to fill out some expensive lingerie. Finding a hoard of it in my dresser drawer, and just putting it on and posing in front of the mirror like no tomorrow. My hair is also suddenly long and flowy. Sometimes I also dream about trying on miniskirts, or going to church in a dress.

But in all the dreams, as nice as I think it is to be able to fill out ...such clothes, I look down, and my legs are unshaven and Oh my goodness-inducing. XD but for some reason, I seem to enjoy putting on the part of a girl, unlike in real life, I get nervous and uncomfortable.

I don't understand. Even when I look into my deepest wishes-o-secrecy, I don't want a womans body. But in these dreams, I seem to enjoy it in secret. I'd be embarrassed to think about if it was just because I liked the look or feel of a womans body, up close like that. (As in, finding yourself attractive.)

Confusion. Any guesses on dream interpretation? It can be a funny or a serious answer XD could be fun.

[Guest Victoriaf]

First of All Hi Neuro. It has been along time.

As far as your dream, the hairy legs denote's your domenince over a situation and dreaming of being a velouptuos woman denotes that you are unsure about something that affects you OR will become an actor or artest. wearing lingerie denotes that you well be very devoted in love. Not nesccesarily physical love, could be a love for something.

So all together

You are currently unsure about a situation that you are in but want to dominate it in the end indicating that you will overcome it and will do so with a loving heart and with a greater appreciatioin.

that isjust aguess however.

Huggs and Kisses

Victoria

[Guest i is Sam :-)]

A lot of young men have erotic dreams / fantasies about cross dressing, it's nothing to be afraid or ashamed of.

it's perfectly natural, and you are a young man after all

[Guest Pól]

Yeh, I thought the same as Sam.

[Guest My_Genesis]

Well I've never had such a dream myself but I for sure know what it feels like to be somewhat (okay, or very) freaked out about your dreams, so I've become kind of a pro at psychoanalyzing myself based on my dreams... doesn't help I'm looking at getting a degree in neuroscience. haha.

Anyway I would give you two possibilities as to the meaning behind that dream:

1.) it's some sort of "secret desire" that you don't want to carry out in real life, but since you mentioned getting nervous about it, I would think it's more likely 2.) something you are kind of shying away from doing in real life, or something you are tired of doing in real life (i.e., living as/dressing like a girl if you are male-identified) so in the dream the way your mind makes sense of this real-life contradiction is by making you comfortable in a sort of extreme form (meaning, very feminine-looking, wearing miniskirts an lingerie, might I add with strong sexual overtones ) of things you've kind of felt coerced into in real life. Kind of like your mind in the dream wants to conform with the body, though in real life it does not.

Make sense? Sorry if it doesn't. But hey I tried. lol.

PS - I'm sure you could find something in a dream dictionary or something online with crossdressing as a theme, though I'm not sure how reliable these are haha.

[Guest sarah f]

Welcome to my side of the dreams. I always dream about dressing like and being a girl. It is a wonderful feeling isn't it. All kidding aside, I agree with what Sam said. You are male and that is all that matters.

Love,

Sarah F

[Guest Neuro]

Wow, haha! Thanks for all the different interpretations. Some of them really make sense.

XD I used to always dream about being male bodied, though, which is why I looked so forward to going to sleep (a world where I could be awesome and a wizard and a starfleet captain and whatever.) But, I guess all dreams can't be THE BEST EVAR dreams.

Though last night I dreamed I could use a garden hose to climb the Eiffel Tower. So perhaps all dreams do have a meaning, but not necessarily what they appear to be.