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Hello, all!

I'm Yume, a 25-year-old mtf . . . or cd . . . or something in between . . . I think. Umm, still working that out in terms of what stays and what goes--well, planning out anyway. ^_^;

I'm kind of confused, if you can't tell, but I've been meeting so many friendly people in the chat that I wanted to come over here and present my hellos and hi theres!

I live in Hawaii, am semi-asian, and I'm a total dork, and proud of it--that's the one part of my identity I'm sure about. I'm not out to many people--just three of my closest friends, but there's a bit of nerdy solidarity there. I wonder if being a nerd makes you more accepting of other folks who live at the fringes of common culture.

Sorry--as you can see, I have a tendency to get sidetracked very easily--even by myself =P

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Guest ~Brenda~

Welcome Welcome Welcome Yume :)

Sweetie, I am so glad that you introduced yourself here in the forums too hon. So, now you know Laura's chat and the forums. They both have their place and both have so much to offer.

You know sweetie, we have other members here that are from Hawaii. CharliTo one of our mods is from Hawaii :)

Love

Brenda

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Hiya Hun,

welcome to our little sunny corner away from the madness of it all.

I look forward to your input so after you have a look around /get to know

the layout post some , see ya hun, luv,viv :)

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Welcome Welcome Welcome Yume :)

Sweetie, I am so glad that you introduced yourself here in the forums too hon. So, now you know Laura's chat and the forums. They both have their place and both have so much to offer.

You know sweetie, we have other members here that are from Hawaii. CharliTo one of our mods is from Hawaii :)

Love

Brenda

^_^ Actually, CharliTo is the one that referred me here! And i'm so happy she did!

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Guest ChloëC

Hi Yume,

Welcome to Laura's! You mention that you're a mtf or cd or maybe something in between. Well, you've come to the best place to be because there seems to be a number of us with similar feelings, and a little confusion about it all. This is a great place for support, for learning a little, and for lots of friendly people.

Hugs

Chloë

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'Allo, Yume! Dozoyoroshiku da yo~

You are from Hawaii, that is so cool! We actually have a few others on here from across that pond as well o3o

No problem in being a bit confused as to who you are. Most of us on here are, or at least were, so we can hopefully help you out a lot or at the very least lend a kind ear :D

Being sidetracked is a-OK. And being a nerd is even better, seeing as I am proud of my nerd heritage. ( :D ) I agree with you 100%--since 'nerdy' people are already outsiders (sometimes) it is a lot more likely for them to be accepting and kind c:

Welcome to Lauras, and hope you enjoy your stay!! feel free to post anytime and anywhere. We'll do our best to answer your questions, and maybe you could also have your input heard on some of ours!

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Hello Yume,

It looks like we have forgotten our manners, no one has invited you in for Hot cocoa and fresh beaked cookies - you might want chocolate milk as Hawaii tends to be a bit warm for hot drinks.

We are a moderated site, but you know that because you already know one of our mods, so please read the rules liked at the top of each page and enjoy your time here in the friendliest place on Earth.

Welcome to the o'hana (family for the non Hawaiians here)

Love ya,

Sally

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Welcome to Laura's Yume! On which island do you live? I have such wonderful memories of the Big Island and Kauai. Make yourself at home and do post. We all want to get to know you. And oh, you Island girls have such beautiful skin! Im so envious!

Hugs, Ricka

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Guest sarah f

Welcome to Laura's Yume. Glad you decided to come over to the forum side. I visit the chat side every once in a while but like to read about what is going on in everyones lives more. You might find that there is more information on the forum side than the chat side. Keep on posting and we will try to answer any of your questions.

Love,

Sarah F

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  • Admin

Welcome to the Playground, Yume!

Don;t worry about being a little confused, hon. We all were that way at some point. Take your time, do things the right way, and you'll figure it all

out in due time.

Please check out the various forums, the resource pages and don't forget the Chat Rooms. Lots of fun things going on over there.

I look forward to reading your posts. If you have questions don't hesitate to post them. A reply (or two or 20) will come along pretty quick!

HUGS

Carolyn Marie

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Guest Chandra

Hello Yume,

Welcome to Laura's, you surfing sweetheart you.

Prepare to be unconfused by the best medication around, which is interaction with those like you. I guarantee if you get involved here you will learn much from the great knowledge amassed here from people that really care and want to help.

You will feel better if you let the real you out to mingle with us all. Understanding takes time and persistance, so settle in, look around and get involved. The rewards of better selfawareness are priceless.

And you are no dork, you are the newest member of your new family !

Take Care, Love and Huggs, Chandra

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Hi Yume,

<<hug>>

Welcome to Laura's Playground.

Please feel free to come over and chat sometime.

The Chat room does require another registration that is separate from from your forums one.

Please read the chat room rules before coming in, and expect a short interview with one of the chat room moderators.

One of the things that they will ask you is if you read the rules. :)

We have MTF meetings-Mon & Sat 9pm est, and we have Crossdresser-Tues 8pm est

and you are welcome to attend.

We all look forward to seeing you.

:wub: vanna

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