How Do Ftm Make Love?

[Guest Jarence]

Dear brothers, i need help on this.. i know T will make a small penis grow from the clit (correct me if im wrong). i want to ask how do i make love to my gf when i going to have my T soon.. thank you all that help...

[MaryEllen]

Hello Jarence,

Welcome to Laura's Playground. As this is a GP rated site, we cannot go into explicit sexual details. I seriously doubt that T would have much effect on the question you are asking. I would suggest seeing a doctor or therapist who has training in this particular field.

MaryEllen

[Guest CharlieRose]

Dear brothers, i need help on this.. i know T will make a small penis grow from the clit (correct me if im wrong).

I shall correct you, then. T alone does not do that. It makes your clitoris much bigger. That is pretty much it.

Without getting too graphic I shall tell you this:

Unfortunately, fixing female genitals to male ones is a practice that is nowhere near perfected. There are two kinds of "bottom surgeries", metoidioplasty and phalloplasty, and both have their pros and cons. Neither will result in a penis that is both fully sensate and completely sexually functional. So... there it is. There is a measure of simply coping with what we have that all FTMs need to take. There are a lot of other things you can do, which may or may not make you feel like a lesbian, but I'd think about it this way: If your girlfriend thinks of you as a man, you are a man, and therefore your relationship with her is a straight one, no matter what you do in the bedroom.

Congratulations on getting the T soon, though! That stuff is magic. (well, not quite magic, obviously, but in a lot of other ways, it's very impressive.)

[Guest Astro_Liz]

As this is a GP rated site

I think ME means this is a PG rated site.

Also, welcome to LP!

I don't think I can be much help on the topic at hand though. My only advice would be is that sexual activity is about much more than insert tab A into slot B, although it may not be apparent in your younger years. Its kind of like a fine wine, it may taste horrid and bitter at first, but as you learn to pair it with other things you quickly realize that it alone is not what is enjoyable, but the entire pallet laid in front of you that combines into a symphony of pure awesome.

[Guest praisedbeherhooves]

Dear brothers, i need help on this.. i know T will make a small penis grow from the clit (correct me if im wrong). i want to ask how do i make love to my gf when i going to have my T soon.. thank you all that help...

Unfortunately, as Charlie said, the two lower surgeries are very primitive currently. Until the surgery stops being so poorly done you can use a prothesis. Also, as Astro Liz says, there is much more to sexual activity than intercourse.

[Guest Nicodeme]

Well....I mean, there's a certain....erm...apparatus on the market by the name of "The Share." Look it up on any of those...*cough* special toy stores and you'll find it. A few of the reviews I've read on it are from FTMs who say it worked well for them. Of course, whether you can use it or not is kind of dependent on how much the dysphoria effects you below the belt...

I'm afraid that unless you end up REALLY lucky, what you have genetically won't really...become substantial, for lack of a better word.

[Guest Jarence]

thank you all for the kind advice.. i think i know what i should do.. thank you admin n moderators..

[Guest My_Genesis]

Yeah it seems the best thing to do would be to work around it. Literally and metaphorically lol. And as has been said the procedures are primitive...keeping my fingers crossed that will change, like, really soon...

[Guest Eck]

Depending on how much you want to spend to gain certain parts, and what functionality you want those parts to have, I may suggest looking into an Australian prosthetist's website called FTM Prosthetics. Choose from 14 different skin tones, length, function, realism (this prosthetist is VERY good), etc. A bit spendy, but the results will be somewhat heavenly, Sir. I am very pleased with mine.

Eck

[Guest Nelly]

Hi,

I think T will change you in that way that you want to have it more often and you want to do it selfish. I think that this is the big different between man and woman. You can do a lot of things to your girl friend without it. It is more the way you do it and will make you a man.

It is all in the head.

Greetings

Nelly

[Flint]

Depending on how much you want to spend to gain certain parts, and what functionality you want those parts to have, I may suggest looking into an Australian prosthetist's website called FTM Prosthetics. Choose from 14 different skin tones, length, function, realism (this prosthetist is VERY good), etc. A bit spendy, but the results will be somewhat heavenly, Sir. I am very pleased with mine.

Eck

Sorry completley off topic here, but i was just wondering and rather than making a nother post figured i'd ask here....

With that australian prosthetists....the dual one....i was wondering can you still urinate standing up? i mean i know it's only a little thing......But for some reason it really helps my identity being able to do tha tstanding up. I was just wondering...maybe it's a dumb question......But there ya go!

[Guest Eck]

Sorry completley off topic here, but i was just wondering and rather than making a nother post figured i'd ask here....

With that australian prosthetists....the dual one....i was wondering can you still urinate standing up? i mean i know it's only a little thing......But for some reason it really helps my identity being able to do tha tstanding up. I was just wondering...maybe it's a dumb question......But there ya go!

There are a few different versions, but unfortunately, none of them are STPs. What you do not get with STPs, though, is made up for in "quality", both aesthetically and functionally (sorry, though, it doesn't glow in the dark). It really depends on what you need. One excellent feature, though, is that nothing in it is metal of any kind, which should pass just fine through the new body-scan systems at the airport, for those that travel and don't want to be horrifically embarassed by an airport steward with a wand. Thermal scans, though...I don't know.

Hope this helps,

Eck

[Guest My_Genesis]

Wow I didn't know about these products. I think of it this way: it is still less $$ than top surgery, for the same if not a greater value for me.

Thanks Eck!!

PS: Since they aren't available as STP's, can't you still make it into an STP the way a lot of guys make their own STP devices using non-STP packers? Or do they not work that way? lol.

[Flint]

There are a few different versions, but unfortunately, none of them are STPs. What you do not get with STPs, though, is made up for in "quality", both aesthetically and functionally (sorry, though, it doesn't glow in the dark). It really depends on what you need. One excellent feature, though, is that nothing in it is metal of any kind, which should pass just fine through the new body-scan systems at the airport, for those that travel and don't want to be horrifically embarassed by an airport steward with a wand. Thermal scans, though...I don't know.

Hope this helps,

Eck

ah okay. BUt you could maybe still use the medicine spoon?...I don't mean through the packer....I mean just use the spoon. I was just wondering if it would be in the way to do that?

[Guest Nicodeme]

What you do not get with STPs, though, is made up for in "quality", both aesthetically and functionally (sorry, though, it doesn't glow in the dark).

You jerk...now I want a glow in the dark packer! XD

Given the almost hilarious variety of what adult toy stores have available, I'm sure I should be able to find one. I mean, honestly, how could any guy, barring one bent on realism, not want one that glows in the dark?

*google searches*

...nope.

I'll just search harder!

[Guest My_Genesis]

lol... this thread is getting quite amusing.

[Guest lvmyftm]

How does a ftm make love to his gf.....anyway he wants!