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Guest BeckyTG

Hi Girls,

This is so funny. It just happened and it was over. Total reflex on both parts.

I pulled into a Convenience store to buy gas today and out of 8 pumps only one was open, but it was facing the wrong way for my vehicle.

So, I turned around, backed up to the pump and noticed a little black car going the other way on another lane.

As I got out of my car to fuel up, I saw the little black car go by. It had made a circle to get to the same pump I just took. Oh, no, I just cut somebody off for fuel. I felt terrible and saw the car pull up near the store. I never looked over, figuring I might get my body pounded by some irate person.

As I was pumping, other pumps became available as people left. Pretty soon, the little black car pulls up to a nearby pump and a woman gets out. Now, I feel awful, as I'd cut off a sister.

I turned to her and, apparently used my arms and gestured quite a bit as I said, "Oh honey, I'm so sorry I cut you off for the pump. I had no idea you were headed for this pump. If I'd known, I'd have never done that." She said very quickly, "Sweetheart, don't give it a thought. I had to dump the trash first, anyway, it's no big deal." (she called me sweetheart). I said, Oh darling, I'm still so sorry, have a great day. She called me another nice name and we parted in great spirits.

Then it hit me---I'd just passed with a woman when looking totally male. My gestures, posture and language got her talking to me just like I was female (which I am) and it made me feel great. Wow!

The whole deal was over in a snap, which gave neither one of us time to think, it was pure reflexes.

I'm loving this,

Becky

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Guest Donna Jean

Becky........

That's so cool......

But ya know.....It's the vibes.

Yup! You give off vibes that others pick up on....And obviously you were sending out female vibes!

And that was exactly what she was picking up on....

You are such a girl!

HUGGS!

Donna Jean

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Guest ~Brenda~

What is so beautiful Becky is that you did not appear threatening or arrogant. You were your true loving self and she picked up on that.

I too noticed that when I just was myself, people responded positively :)

I am so glad to be hearing that you are beginning to embrace that you are transgendered.

Love

Brenda

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  • Admin

That's great, Becky. Yup, female vibes. You got 'em, hon. :D

Who says you need hormones, anyway?

Great story, Becky. Thanks.

Carolyn Marie

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Guest sarah f

Just another baby step for you. You keep on making those baby steps look easy Becky. You are going to make it hard on your sisters here if you keep this up. :lol: I am happy for you to pass without even trying. You are getting there.

Love,

Sarah F

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Yea, Becky - these things only happen when you are not trying - it all comes so natural for us but we all tend to work at it - we just like to do things the hard way it seems.

Love ya,

Sally

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Becky,,,I know,,,your telegraphing your womanhood to folk.

Its been said a few times here , sure , looks are important.

But its attitude and confidence , you obviously got both those

boxes ticked off hun, way to go Becky!!!!luvv,viv :)

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Guest Joanna Phipps
Hi Girls,

This is so funny. It just happened and it was over. Total reflex on both parts.

I pulled into a Convenience store to buy gas today and out of 8 pumps only one was open, but it was facing the wrong way for my vehicle.

So, I turned around, backed up to the pump and noticed a little black car going the other way on another lane.

As I got out of my car to fuel up, I saw the little black car go by. It had made a circle to get to the same pump I just took. Oh, no, I just cut somebody off for fuel. I felt terrible and saw the car pull up near the store. I never looked over, figuring I might get my body pounded by some irate person.

As I was pumping, other pumps became available as people left. Pretty soon, the little black car pulls up to a nearby pump and a woman gets out. Now, I feel awful, as I'd cut off a sister.

I turned to her and, apparently used my arms and gestured quite a bit as I said, "Oh honey, I'm so sorry I cut you off for the pump. I had no idea you were headed for this pump. If I'd known, I'd have never done that." She said very quickly, "Sweetheart, don't give it a thought. I had to dump the trash first, anyway, it's no big deal." (she called me sweetheart). I said, Oh darling, I'm still so sorry, have a great day. She called me another nice name and we parted in great spirits.

Then it hit me---I'd just passed with a woman when looking totally male. My gestures, posture and language got her talking to me just like I was female (which I am) and it made me feel great. Wow!

The whole deal was over in a snap, which gave neither one of us time to think, it was pure reflexes.

I'm loving this,

Becky

OMG lil sis

YGG look at you, dressed right down and now passing without even trying... Id best watch my backside your gonna be sneakin up on it fast.

Im so happy for you sweet lil sis, you sure are on the way to who you should be.

hugs

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