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Guest Elizabeth K

Guest Elizabeth K

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I don't know why I posted this - I have been pretty much living full time anyway, but yesterday I felt beautiful for the first time, I think. And it was my white tailored blouse and my floucy white skirt. I just have to express myself here.

Working at my office, I still present male mode - a joke I know, but it's 'don't ask don't tell.' I wear my girl jeans and girl loafers - but I also wear expensive white men's shirts, French cuffed - and with expensive designer jewelry. I have a theripist appointment every othe week - so I have to go from work. I take my hair down and I put on my earrings and a little lipcolor. There I am, from male mode to female mode - so simple.

But yesterday was different. I was home as had taken time off to take my wife to the doctor for some routine work. So afterward I had time to dress nicely - a bit fancier than I usually do when full time - to go see my therapist. I had an extra hour to get ready, and wasn't coming from work.

And it's spring time here.

So I selected an all white presentation - and I was able to really work on my make-up, as it was evening time, so a little more color around the eyes and on the cheeks was practical. And I washed and set my hair - opting for my natural curlyness rather than blow-drying it straight.

OH MY

My therapist said I was beautiful! When I went to the restaurant later, people noticed me in a way I had never experienced before - a way that might be called 'turning heads!." And I was NOT being noticed for the wrong reasons, I was gettin ma'amed and men were holding open doors for me.

It is something new to me. I just wanted to say to everyone here, being a pretty woman is something I NEVER thought I could achieve.

I just had to share.

Lizzy

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I hate to tell all of you this but I saw Lizzy last night and well......

All I can say is....

She looked fabulous

and the crowning touch was the smile on her face.

I hadn't seen that smile in a very long time - I think it was in Memphis back in September, probably the last time that she had gotten so dolled up when we went out for our last dinner together.

I am inspired to put a little more work into my appearance before I go out next time - it seems to have made Lizzy feel like a new woman.

But I am not looking for a new woman - I am pretty happy with the ones that I already have! :D

Lizzy, to many more days as the beautiful woman that you have always been.

Love ya,

Sally

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I am seriously bummed......

I didn't get to see you. Dang.

It already takes so very little for you to shine and with you really doing it up last night, you must of been beautiful.

And, I totally understand why men hold doors open for you and stare...it's that you ARE a woman. A strikingly beautiful woman...

And, I missed it..........

dang...

Donna Jean

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Thank you for sharing this hon :)

I am glad that you are really feeling confident and good about yourself.

Indeed, you are a very lovely woman.

HUGS

Brenda

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Guest Cris

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Lizzy,

Its a great feeling when all the cards fall in place and people treat you as the beautiful woman you are. I am so happy for you that you got treated with the dignity and respect that a beautiful woman deserves. Have fun playing that up...

Cris

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Dazzling Lizzie,

That is a fabulous story. This is the reason I've become reasonably picky about my clothes, cosmetics, glasses, hair and everything about me. It matters.

When everything is just right, I'm pretty. I look pretty, I feel pretty and men hold doors open for me. When that happens, how can you NOT be confident and feel good? (hint--you can't not feel good).

Donna Jean and Paula both have been out with me and commented on my confidence. When you KNOW you look good, you operate differently. In your case, when your voice works good, you know it and work it. That makes you confident.

A lot of confidence lies in the preparation. You know that.

I'm so happy you've got a look that makes you a knockout. Hoooooraaaaay Lizzie!!!!!!

Easy hugs (don't wrinkle the outfit),

Becky

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Thank you so much for sharing Lizzy. Some of the joy of what progress we make has to be in those bursts of progress our friends (may I presume?) experience. I just know you were radiant and gorgeous!

SusanKG

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So glad you had such a wonderful experience Lizzy! Has to be wonderful to be seen as a beautiful woman.

Your outside matches your inside now :D

Congrats on getting there!

Love and *hugs*

Mae

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