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I know it has been a month or so since I have been on the site but I hope to be back around a little more. I have been trying to let my wife to digest everything and not push her too much so I laid low for a little while. I had my GT visit yesterday and she told me that I shouldn't stop getting on Laura's since this is my way of expressing myself with others. I agree that this site is needed and I really missed each and everyone of you. I probably won't post as much as I use to but I will come around more and give my support when I can.

Well what have I been doing lately. My wife had our 3rd child on Feb, 27th. I found out that my wife was getting on this site and looking up my old posts but she hasn't said a thing to me about it yet. I don't know if she didn't clear out the history on the computer on purpose or just forgot. I guess I will just let it be until she is ready to talk about it more. I really have been just working and helping with the children as much as I can right now. I guess it has been pretty boring lately.

Love,

Sarah F

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Guest Donna Jean

Hey, Sarah!

welcome back....I've missed you this last month!

Be sure to have a good look around..there's a lot of new faces!

Nice to have you back again!

HUGGS!

Donna Jean

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Hi Sarah,

It is so good to see you again.

I am happy to hear that your third child is healthy.

I am happy that your GT sent you back here - good advice, in my opinion.

It is possible that your wife is desperately trying to understand if not the what this really is at least the whys as to what compels us to make such drastic changes - you really have nothing to hide, you have been honest with her - it was your plan originally to have a few sessions with your GT to be totally certain of the path for you before telling her only because you didn't want to alarm her if it was something else - we all do that.

Keep in touch and if there is anything that you need do let us know - that is why we are here.

Love ya,

Sally

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Sarah, Congrats on the birth of your child. What a wonderful thing that is. I can just imagine how busy both of you are

right now.

I'm glad you're back, even if its at a lower level of participation. You need us, and we need you.

I think that your wife will benefit from seeing the site, and reading your posts. She will learn a lot about Sarah,

and that's a good thing. I wish you both well.

HUGS

Carolyn Marie

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Guest Elizabeth K

Oh Sarah - boy or girl? (HA - here we are championing gender freedom - and that is the first question I ask!)

Congradulations!

And welcome back - you don't have to run a marathon here - just check in, and look around, and say hello, and tell us how you are... thats all.

And your wife finding out so much about Sarah? That's very good. She will know what you write here is truthful, without sugar-coating. And it's hard on our wives - so verrrrry hard! I hope the best for you with that.

And thank you for your updates - you know we love you here and you have our uncoditional support!

Lizzy

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Guest ~Brenda~

Hi Sarah :)

Welcome back sweetheart.

Congratulations on the birth of your child.

If you need any assistance in explainig anything to your wife, don't hesistate to ask.

HUGS

Brenda

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Guest sarah f

Thank each of you for your support. I really missed each of you and the site. I won't stay away anymore, just won't be on the site as much as I was before. I look forward to reading and posting again.

By the way the baby was a boy. 7lbs 8 oz 20 1/2 that is even 15 days early.

Love,

Sarah F

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