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Guest Emily Violet

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Guest Alex Blitzen

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I am very sorry to hear this *hugs* Losing a friend that young can be very tragic. I understand how you are feeling and I'm sorry.

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Emily, I am so sorry for the loss of your friend. No one should die that way, and certainly no one so young.

My heart goes out to you. Please know that I, and all of us here, care about you very much and hate to see you in pain.

Go ahead and cry, hon. We'll be here for you.

(((HUGGSS)))

Carolyn Marie

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Guest Ami James

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*sighs painfully and fight back to hold tears*

I can relate to that when I lost a friend around your friend's age. but in the different reason. Also, I used to know someone who died from Cancer that young age.

I am sorry about your loss and I can relate to that...

*sighs* I wish I can turn back time sometimes at least to see my friends the last time.

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Guest SouthernBelle

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Oh my god, that's terrible. Let me know if there's ANYTHING I can do to help you... I know that there's probably nothing I can do, but...

Oh, I'm so sorry, hon...

HUGGS, KISSES, AND A GENTLE PAT ON THE BACK

Belle

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JenniferB Rhenium Member

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Wow Emily,

I am really sorry. I am speechless in times like this. I hope there are those around you who you can lean on in times likes these.

Susan

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Guest Leigh

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i'm so sorry to hear this, i can empathize with how you must be feeling now having lost a young friend of mine within the last year.

it is painful when someone goes so long before their time. i hope that you find comfort in friends and memories. try to remember the good things.

we are here for you.

peace&love

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Guest Kitsunenene

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My condolences to you and your friend's loved ones.

I know this is hard. I have the deepest empathy for you.

Ariel

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Guest Lee-Asher Geo-James

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*hugs* x infinity!!!

I am so sorry that you had to go through this and I am sorry that your friend has died and it happened this way. :(

If you need to you can PM me :(

Just remember we are here for you!! *hugs*

*hugs*

LeeAsher

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Oh Emily,

So sorry to hear about your friend, she will live on in the hearts of those who knew her and Loved her. It's such a hard thing to deal with.

Huggs!!!

Jenny

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Sally Gold Member

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I am so sorry Emily.

I know how you feel I had a friend who died from Leukemia at the age of 13.

Children should not have to die so young, I am so sorry for your loss, keep your friend in your heart and they will live on.

Remember all of the good times and never the disease or the end.

Grieving is a natural and necessary part of adjusting to such a loss but do not mourn too long, it is much healthier to celebrate the life.

I hope that helps.

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest Donna Jean

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I'm so very sorry, Honey....

This should not happen to those so young....

My love is with you...

And my thoughts....

I'm so sorry....

LOVE

Donna Jean

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Guest Cris

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That really sucks. I am so sorry to hear about your friend. I have a friend that is dealing with Cancer too, only much older than yours. Keep your friend in your heart and know that you loved them.

Cris

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Guest Elizabeth K

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Emily

There are no words...

I wish this was real {{{{{{{{{{{{HUG}}}}}}}}}}}}

Best I guess I can do - DAMNNN

Lizzy

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I'm really really sorry, Emily. I lost a classmate to cancer when we were 13, and even though we were never very close, it was tremendously difficult. I can only imagine the pain you must be feeling. Many hugs to you. I'll be thinking about you and your friend's family today.

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I'm so sorry honey. My step-father passed on the 6th of this month to cancer. It's a terrible thing. I'll keep you in my prayers.

Love,

Chelsey Hosler

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Guest Tess

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Emily,

It is so hard to cope with the death of young people, who should have so much to look forward to. I wish you the strength to deal with this loss. My sister died of cancer when she was seventeen, just started at university, after six weeks of illness. That was twenty-five years ago, but all of my family still miss her. Some of her friends were inspired by her to do more with their lives. I hope you and your friends are alright,

Look after yourself,

Best wishes, Tess.

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