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Guest Lee-Asher Geo-James

I proposed to my girlfriend Willow just a few days ago, as most of you know.

She asked what kind of Wedding I wanted and I said a wedding...

I didn't know what she meant...

Then she was like Wiccan, Catholic?

I was like you pick.

Since I got to pick our date.

She choose Wiccan.

Our lovely friend Megan is a minister and a 3rd Degree High Priestess. :)

She will end up "marrying" us...

So I was just curious on if anyone has had any experience with being a part of one? Or is going to have one?

Our friend Megan is going to give us details today, but I was just curious about everyone. :)

Thank you

*hugs*

LeeAsher

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Guest Donna Jean

Honey......

My wife is a practicing Wiccan of many years...

There has been many rites and rituals preformed at my house.....

The beauty of a Wiccan wedding is that there are no rules...

It's written the way you want it to go....

Very flexible.....

Hey, where's Lizzy....she'll have something good on this!

Huggs

Donna Jean

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Well, like so many other weddings that I would have loved to have photographed the Wiccan wedding on Halloween one year fell through for me because they could not afford a photographer at all.

They have so much less structure than most weddings because the religion itself is much more fluid than so many of the rigid practices of most churches.

All I can say is that it should be very interesting.

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest Elizabeth K

Its really a matter of choice - what makes the wedding sacred to you? Wicca is the association with the forces of the earth and the universe - and the recognition of the Creator as the goddess form. It has many rituals to chose from and usually people like to associate with their chosen life force - such as water, perhaps married by a lake. It should be 'green' as in environmentally sound - and it should reinforce the purity of the moment, a pivot point in your existance.

The High Priestess will explain, you are fortunate to find one.

Lizzy

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Guest cael

sooooooooo i guess u didn't know i was wiccan :unsure:

but, yeah I've been in one and planing on having a traditonal handfasting (wiccan wedding) and a ""good christain"" wedding aka the white wedding

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Guest Lee-Asher Geo-James

I am sorry if this shows up twice but my Internet went out after I hit reply and then I tried to close another window knocking this one out... My bad

Honey......

My wife is a practicing Wiccan of many years...

There has been many rites and rituals preformed at my house.....

The beauty of a Wiccan wedding is that there are no rules...

It's written the way you want it to go....

Very flexible.....

Hey, where's Lizzy....she'll have something good on this!

Huggs

Donna Jean

I love how it's so flex and not er what's the word? Strict? :unsure:

Well, like so many other weddings that I would have loved to have photographed the Wiccan wedding on Halloween one year fell through for me because they could not afford a photographer at all.

They have so much less structure than most weddings because the religion itself is much more fluid than so many of the rigid practices of most churches.

All I can say is that it should be very interesting.

Love ya,

Sally

I can't wait. :)

(can't remember what the other thing was but it was more than just "I can't wait" gah...)

Its really a matter of choice - what makes the wedding sacred to you? Wicca is the association with the forces of the earth and the universe - and the recognition of the Creator as the goddess form. It has many rituals to chose from and usually people like to associate with their chosen life force - such as water, perhaps married by a lake. It should be 'green' as in environmentally sound - and it should reinforce the purity of the moment, a pivot point in your existance.

The High Priestess will explain, you are fortunate to find one.

Lizzy

Megan and I are going to talk today, Willow too if she's awake by then. :lol:

I am glad that I found her. Er well I was talking to her about the Wedding and that Willow wanted it to be Wiccan and she told me that she is a minister and Wiccan and that she could do it for us. :D

Willow has met Megan so at least she isn't a stranger (er in person I mean :lol: )

If I hadn't brought it up then we may not be so fortunate.

sooooooooo i guess u didn't know i was wiccan :unsure:

but, yeah I've been in one and planing on having a traditonal handfasting (wiccan wedding) and a ""good christain"" wedding aka the white wedding

I found out from like the only other Wiccan thread :P :P

Why are you having both? :unsure:

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Guest Lee-Asher Geo-James
My wife and I had a Handfasting in her brother's house...

Melanie Dawn

What's it like? Er, yours anyways.

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Guest Melanie Dawn
What's it like? Er, yours anyways.

Very simple, and short... my wife hand picked the music, we wrote the whole ceremony ourselves... her sister was the maid of honor, and my father was the best man. (Yes i know those aren't typical, but the whole thing was exactly how we wanted it. We had a friend of her family, who is minister, oversee it. It was really great..I bawled the WHOLE time LMAO

Melanie Dawn

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Guest Lee-Asher Geo-James
Very simple, and short... my wife hand picked the music, we wrote the whole ceremony ourselves... her sister was the maid of honor, and my father was the best man. (Yes i know those aren't typical, but the whole thing was exactly how we wanted it. We had a friend of her family, who is minister, oversee it. It was really great..I bawled the WHOLE time LMAO

Melanie Dawn

Awwwwwww That's cute.

*hugs*

That's what's best about Wiccan Weddings :) No rules

*hugs*

LeeAsher

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Guest Melanie Dawn
Awwwwwww That's cute.

*hugs*

That's what's best about Wiccan Weddings :) No rules

*hugs*

LeeAsher

EXACLTY why we did it that way :D thanks

/hugs

Melanie Dawn

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Guest cael

my mom's a high prestiest and a ordainded miniser id be glad to lend you her lol :P

im having both cuse she wants a white wedding

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Guest Lee-Asher Geo-James
my mom's a high prestiest and a ordainded miniser id be glad to lend you her lol :P

im having both cuse she wants a white wedding

I already have a 3rd Degree High Priestess and she is able to legally marry people. I do believe that it's called that same thing. :)

Her name is Megan. :) *Thank you Megan :P *

But thank you :D

Nicole does? :unsure:

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Guest cael
I already have a 3rd Degree High Priestess and she is able to legally marry people. I do believe that it's called that same thing. :)

Her name is Megan. :) *Thank you Megan :P *

But thank you :D

Nicole does? :unsure:

Yeah, corse she's not wiccan but she's cool with me being wiccan also miss willow I'd like to say A you guys are cute together and B you got a great man there treat him good the same goes for you geo you got a great woman there love her understand her and at the very most remeber she is always right even when she's wrong she's right ;) goddesses blessings on you both

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Guest Lee-Asher Geo-James
Yeah, corse she's not wiccan but she's cool with me being wiccan also miss willow I'd like to say A you guys are cute together and B you got a great man there treat him good the same goes for you geo you got a great woman there love her understand her and at the very most remeber she is always right even when she's wrong she's right ;) goddesses blessings on you both

I will treat her right and yes the girl's always, always right!! :PWell not always...

Thank you :D

Blessed be :)

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