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Hi everyone, my name is Joanna.

I'm a 22 years old and i've wished i was a girl for as long as i can remember. i don't really know how to identify myself.. i have cross dressed for most of my life, but i've always been secretive. its not that i don't think my family would accept me, i know they would, but i'm scared of them seeing me differently. but then perhaps i want them to see me differently since i largely regard myself as a girl. i really want to try living as Jo for a while, but thats obviously not on the cards while i'm in the closet. i'm hoping that talking to some of you will help me to understand who i am. for now, i'm just so happy that there is this place where i can be completely open as a girl!!

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Guest Donna Jean

Hello, Jo...

Welcome to the Playground!

I'm Donna Jean....

And, yes, you are encouraged to be totally yourself here...

Whatever makes you comfortable...

So, pull up a chair and I'll get you a cup of hot coco and a big plate of Sally's cookies...

Then you can kick back and relax....OK?

Now, I'd like to ask you to be sure to have a look at the forum rules...there's a link at the top of most pages...

And, we moderate this site to keep it safe for everyone..

I'm sure that you'll like it here!

It's so nice to have you!

HUGGS!

Donna Jean

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Guest Melanie Dawn
Hello, Jo...

Welcome to the Playground!

I'm Donna Jean....

And, yes, you are encouraged to be totally yourself here...

Whatever makes you comfortable...

So, pull up a chair and I'll get you a cup of hot coco and a big plate of Sally's cookies...

Then you can kick back and relax....OK?

Now, I'd like to ask you to be sure to have a look at the forum rules...there's a link at the top of most pages...

And, we moderate this site to keep it safe for everyone..

I'm sure that you'll like it here!

It's so nice to have you!

HUGGS!

Donna Jean

what DJ said LOL She's (almost always) the first person to greet people.

Welcome and enjoy your stay!

/hugs

Melanie Dawn

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Guest ~Brenda~

Hi and Welcome Jo :)

Welcome to Laura's Playground!!

Indeed, you can be yourself here hon.

Live and grow sweetie :)

Post to the forums!!!

HUGS

Brenda

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Guest Jewel

Hi Jo!

Welcome to Laura's!

I lot of us have been through that stage of not being sure where exactly we fit.

Finding ways to comfortably explore your options can help. I'm sure you'll find lots of folks here to chat with and help you along the way.

Jewel

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Guest Jo22
Hi and Welcome Jo :)

Welcome to Laura's Playground!!

Indeed, you can be yourself here hon.

Live and grow sweetie :)

Post to the forums!!!

HUGS

Brenda

Thank you, i have read the rules and i will be be respectful and considerate! Wow, i've wanted to talk to someone for years, it feels amazing to be here! i actually feels as if this is the first time i've ever had a conversation!

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Welcome to Laura's Playground Jo.

Have a look around in the forums. You will find a lot of information there. Plus you will find the members very friendly and accepting. You will find others who feel the same way you do.

Love Susan

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Guest Jo22
Welcome to Laura's Playground Jo.

Have a look around in the forums. You will find a lot of information there. Plus you will find the members very friendly and accepting. You will find others who feel the same way you do.

Love Susan

Thanks Susan, i love you picture, Kagome is such a great character! i already feel so welcome here, everyone is wonderful!

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Guest Hoslers_wife

Welcome to Lauras Jo!

Your gonna get me all excited too!! It's contagious (spelling?)

Love,

Chelsey Hosler

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Guest Jo22

How can i figure out who i'm supposed to be? I have always been Jo in my head but being the relentlessly indecisive girl that i am, i don't have the courage or conviction to change my whole life. will i ever really be sure?

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Guest Donna Jean
How can i figure out who i'm supposed to be? I have always been Jo in my head but being the relentlessly indecisive girl that i am, i don't have the courage or conviction to change my whole life. will i ever really be sure?

WELLLLLLL..............

This seems like a perfect time to get this answer out....

"Gender Therapist"

YUP! That is the perfect way to help you figure where you fit into the gender spectrum...

You know....it's not easy when we feel this way...knowing that something is wrong, but not exactly sure what...

This is how we get to where we can start making decisions ...

So, please consider the therapist....OK?

HUGGS!

Donna Jean

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Guest Elizabeth K

YUP

What Dee Jay says - we ALWAYS say that. Of course - it may not be possible for you to access one for a while - but at age 22 you need to start looking.

We are not therapists - just gender dysphoric like you say you are. We can tell you OUR life experiences. Thats how it works, I guess. So ask away -post post post... grin.

Lizzy

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Guest Jo22
WELLLLLLL..............

This seems like a perfect time to get this answer out....

"Gender Therapist"

YUP! That is the perfect way to help you figure where you fit into the gender spectrum...

You know....it's not easy when we feel this way...knowing that something is wrong, but not exactly sure what...

This is how we get to where we can start making decisions ...

So, please consider the therapist....OK?

HUGGS!

Donna Jean

Alright then, i'll see about making an appointment. think i'll hang out here for a while first and get used to talking to people about it. Thanks for your help Donna Jean!

xx

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Hello Jo,

I am going to tell you just a little bit about what to expect from a gender therapist - not answers but advice.

They tend to work as guides, leading us to ourselves and our true paths.

So now that I have told you that - welcome to the forums.

Isn't this a great place?

I moved in in August of 2008 and I have never wanted to leave - this became my home and the members my best friends and family - you will probably feel the same way pretty soon.

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest Jo22
Hello Jo,

I am going to tell you just a little bit about what to expect from a gender therapist - not answers but advice.

They tend to work as guides, leading us to ourselves and our true paths.

So now that I have told you that - welcome to the forums.

Isn't this a great place?

I moved in in August of 2008 and I have never wanted to leave - this became my home and the members my best friends and family - you will probably feel the same way pretty soon.

Love ya,

Sally

Hi Sally, thanks for the advice.

do you think i should talk to a male or female therapist? do i even get to chose? I think i would feel kind of weird talking to a man about it, i mean i know they're professional and everything but still...

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Guest Donna Jean
Hi Sally, thanks for the advice.

do you think i should talk to a male or female therapist? do i even get to chose? I think i would feel kind of weird talking to a man about it, i mean i know they're professional and everything but still...

Hey, Hon.......

Sure you can choose.....just find a female gender therapist...(It's important that they are "Gender Trained")

We have a list of therapists here, too...you may want to look at that!

http://www.lauras-playground.com/gender_therapists.htm

HUGGS!

Donna Jean

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Guest miss kindheart

Hi Joanna,

<<hug>>

Welcome to Laura's Playground.

Please feel free to come over and chat sometime.

The Chat room does require another registration that is separate from from your forums one.

Please read the chat room rules before coming in, and expect a short interview with one of the chat room moderators.

One of the things that they will ask you is if you read the rules. :)

We have MTF meetings-Mon & Sat 9pm est, and you are welcome to attend.

We all look forward to seeing you.

:wub: vanna

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Guest NatashaJade

Hi Jo!

Welcome to Laura's! As you can see already, there are plenty of helpful folk here who are eager to assist you with all of life's questions...and bring you refreshments :D

luv

Gin

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Guest Micha
i'm just so happy that there is this place where i can be completely open as a girl!!

One reason I love this place too, you can "say what you mean and be who you are."

Welcome to LP!

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