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Guest moonrise

So I have been balding for the past 20 years. What is the best hope I have of recovering hair loss with spiro and or fin? They are working some but I have heard that recovering all the loss is almost hopeless :(

Aside from surgery and plugs I think wigs/hair systems are my only real option. I'd like to hear from any girls here using one of those and where I might find a good quality one myself.

Thanks!

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Guest Donna Jean
So I have been balding for the past 20 years. What is the best hope I have of recovering hair loss with spiro and or fin? They are working some but I have heard that recovering all the loss is almost hopeless :(

Aside from surgery and plugs I think wigs/hair systems are my only real option. I'd like to hear from any girls here using one of those and where I might find a good quality one myself.

Thanks!

Honey......I use wigs...

I still have most of my hair and I have a 16" ponytail, but a very high forehead...I've always had that...

Although I pass often without the wig.....

Be sure to get a good quality wig...cheap/poor quality ones are worse than no wig at all...

Go for the human hair types (Although, there are some VERY good synthetic ones out there)

If you live where you have access to a wig shop...that is way better than mail order...you can try them on!

Donna Jean

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Guest ricka

Hon! I adore wigs and found in time wearing one feels more natural than going without! I shop Paula Young.com online and have been totally satisfied. Their synthetic wigs look totally natural and are easy as far as upkeep. The thing about a wig is that you can have perfect hair almost instantly and the right style and color can do wonders for your appearance! I was lucky the first wig I chose--and my favorite was the style and color of one of my sister's natural hair. It was perfect for my complexion and the shape of my face. Call me vain but having perfect hair is really important to me and wearing a wig I feel in no way deprived by not having perfect natural hair.

Hugs, Ricka

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Guest Donna Jean

I just washed the one wig that I wear the most...

It's nice to put it in the sink and do it and not have to walk around with a towel on my head for a period of time!...LOL

Huggs

Donna Jean

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Guest Cynthia Of Creation

I just washed the one wig that I wear the most...

It's nice to put it in the sink and do it and not have to walk around with a towel on my head for a period of time!...LOL

Huggs

Donna Jean

But Donna the towel is the fun part. lol

I heard Human hair is better cuz you can style it whatever way you like, and you can wash it like real hair cuz it is.

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Guest Virginia_

But Donna the towel is the fun part.

Then a human hair lace-front sounds like it would be perfect. They adhesively attach directly to the scalp around the hairline and can be worn while bathing & swimming for about a month!

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Guest Donna Jean

Then a human hair lace-front sounds like it would be perfect. They adhesively attach directly to the scalp around the hairline and can be worn while bathing & swimming for about a month!

Yes, Virginia....

I've done some reading on those and I think that I'd love to try one...

Huggs

Donna Jean

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Guest Virginia_

I have a Beverly Johnson lace front synthetic that I absolutely love, Donna Jean. They are amazingly light weight. I've wore mine in the scorching high 90 degree days we've had the last few weeks and forget I even have it on. The best thing about lace fronts is you can use adhesive or wear them like a regular wig. Either way, you get that amazing natural hairline and the ability to style the wig however you like.

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Guest Donna Jean

OMG!

IS THAT YOU?

Oh my, you ARE a beanpole!....LOL

And you look wonderful!

I've been wanting to see you and I'm not dissapointed at all!

Nice! You really do look lovely!

Oh yeah....the wig......

I want to look into the lace fronts...

BUT!

Thank you for putting up the pic....Dang, GF! You look great!

HUGGGGGGGS!

Donna Jean

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Guest Virginia_

(blushing)

Yes, it is. Thank you, Donna Jean. LOL, I keep telling you all I'm skinny as a rail- all 5' 11", 146 pounds of me! I tend to be a bit of a tomboy, but love choker halters. They are perfect for flat-chested beanpoles like me. I wore that pink top with a pair of jean shorts and white flats last Tuesday when I spent the day out and about as my female self.

I have been reluctant to post a picture but it was the only way to really show you how natural lace front wigs are. And they are sooo easy. I slip it on over my wig cap, run a comb through it and I'm out the door. Part it, flip it, brush it over my ear, put my sunglasses on it, I absolutely love my lace front wig!

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Guest sarah f

Virginia, love the pic and wig. It looks good on you. I am your height but weigh 138 pounds. I don't think of myself as too skinny, how about you?

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(at the risk of high jacking the thread)

You are so sweet, Sarah, thank you!

Do I think of myself as too thin? Well, it sort of depends on whether I am expressing myself as a girl or a guy. As a girl, I would like to be closer to 140. As a guy, I would like to be back to the 162 pounds I had been for the last 25 years. When my female self began to express herself about a year and a half ago, something "changed" in my metabolism. My wife says I am literally burning up when she cuddles against me while we sleep. I haven't done anything different, but it seems my body found a new happy spot and the weight dropped off of me like a rock. I fluctuate between 144 and 152 now depending on whether I am dripping with sweat after doing yard work or an evening of pizza and beer. I have been on HRT since the beginning of the year and it has had zip, zero nada effect on my weight.

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