Thought I Should Share

[Guest Hoslers_wife]

Nick and I are taking a break. It's obviously complicated but he needs to figure himself out and work through some things, alone unfortunately. He's up on a job site right now and will be there for the duration of the summer. I'm not too sure where that leaves me but I wanted to share. Kinda feels like I was hit with a freight train. Even typing is a chore so I'll leave it at that. :-(

[Guest Elizabeth K]

Nick and I are taking a break. It's obviously complicated but he needs to figure himself out and work through some things, alone unfortunately. He's up on a job site right now and will be there for the duration of the summer. I'm not too sure where that leaves me but I wanted to share. Kinda feels like I was hit with a freight train. Even typing is a chore so I'll leave it at that. :-(

Chelsey...

Oh my oh my oh my!

I hope that gets worked out! DON"T LEAVE US - please please please! You are such a part of Laura's now I couldn't bear to have you go....

PLEASE stay here with us - you just gotta!!!

You are so loved here...

Lizzy

[Guest Donna Jean]

Oh, Baby...HUGGGGGG....

I'm so sorry...I've been over on your Face Book and I was aware, but, I had hoped that it was a small thing...

Wish I could give you a R/L Hugg...

Yes....PLEASE stay!

All my love...

Donna Jean

[Guest Hoslers_wife]

So much has happened and I feel so broken. He's my partner. I want ot give him what he needs but it's killing me. Every time I'm still I wind up in the fetal position losing my mind. I don't know what to do. He says he needs to figure some things out.

[Guest Emily Ray]

Chelsey,

I don't have any words to say that could make you feel better so I'll just hold your hand and sit with you a while.

A big hug

Emily

[Guest Hoslers_wife]

Thank you. Right now everything helps. I've never felt so lost. And I'm not going anywhere silly's

[Guest Cris]

Chelsey,

I am so sorry to hear you and Nick seem to be going through a tough time. Being Trans sucks alot of the times. Our emotions and even our viewpoints seem to get muddled up and we dont know what direction we are needing or even wanting to go. I wish Nick the best as he figures himself out. I wish you much peace as this progresses. We are here if you need or want to talk. You can PM me anytime.

Cris

[Guest ~Brenda~]

Chelsey hon

You have always been so wonderful. I want you to know that I have always loved reading your posts. Your compassion is unparalleled.

You have the respect and love from me and I am sure everyone else here too

You are a true and great friend. You are always welcome here and you have friends here.

Love you

Brenda

[Guest Hoslers_wife]

It really has a lot to do with that. He needs to find himself and gain perspective on himself and us.I just wish I could fastforward

[Guest micralla]

I am not the best with words. I am sorry and do hope everything fixes itself very soon. it is very obvious that everyone here loves you and wants the best.

I do give you a big hug

Luv

Jessie

[Guest lvmyftm]

As much as it hurts sometimes these things work out for the best

[Guest doodle]

I sorry to hear that . I not one that believes that one can or should work things out with out ones partner. I mean that is the half of your life. Only men say and do things like that the selfish creeps

kelly

[Guest BeckyTG]

Sweetest Chelsey,

You are such a wonderful person and it really hurts to see you go through this. I hope this gets resolved soon. The emotions in a relationship can sometimes really suck.

I'll just give you a warm hug.

Hhhhhuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggg

You are very loved here, hon.

Love, lotsa love,

Becky

[Guest sarah f]

Like I said on facebook, (That Sucks). You two seemed to be great together. I hope everything works out for you. We will all be here for you if and when you need someone to lean on.

Love,

Sarah F

[Guest Elizabeth K]

This is for you my dear Chelsey...

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{ HUG }}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

Oh my oh my oh my

How we love you!

Lizzy

[Guest ohhlaala]

Im sorry to hear that, I hope you can work things out. Whatever the outcome hope you are both okay.

[JenniferB]

Oh Chelsey! You make me want to cry. I really don't know what to say that could possibly cheer you up. I just know how much you were there when I needed support. I really hope things work out. You have a caring nature and I would love to see you have a happy and fulfilling life. I really feel for you and hope you can find comfort in such a trying time.

Love Jenny

[Guest Hoslers_wife]

I can't tell you all how uplifting that was. thank you. I know we will work it out, this time is just a bit more complicated. His fears about my sexuality play a big role. Were just gonna give each other space and find ourselves again. Somehow in the last year or so we have both lost touch with who we are and what we need in life. We talked last night a bit and we both miss each other but we need to repair some personal issues on both of our ends to be a strong team again. We can't always have a fairy-tale after all lol :-) Really, I'm ok. The first 48 hours I was losing it but I've realized this is just a hurtle we need to overcome to become a stronger family. If that means we give each other space to think and gain perspective, I'm ok with that. I made a promise to him in front of God and everyone that I would stand by him through anything and this is no exception.

[JJ]

Oh Chelsey1 That is devastating. It sounds like all will be okay again in time but the wait.......

You are such an amazing person and so needed and loved here. I hope that helps some.

You have been here for so many please let all of those who cherish you be here for you.

Hugs

JJ

[Guest Micha]

*hugs*

I really hope things work out for you two. And I wish I had more to offer than just that.

[Flint]

I sorry to hear that . I not one that believes that one can or should work things out with out ones partner. I mean that is the half of your life. Only men say and do things like that the selfish creeps

kelly

some women do it to aswell though.

Dunno never understood breaks myself.

I'm sorry this is happening and hope it works out for best for you.

[Guest Nothingbutpain]

Hands down the hardest thing in my life was losing my partner in life. Its been 8 months and im still dealing with it even though im in a good place with her and we are still living together because i cant SALE my house! ugh. I have days that it hurts to breath. That being said it does get easier and if its meant to be believe me it will happen we are capable of incredible things and i have no doubt you are as well take one day at a time one hour one minute if you have to there i no shame in it.

[Guest My_Genesis]

Chelsey!! I saw the news on FB but I only had about 10 mins on there so I was keeping my fingers crossed that everything is OK and you weren't going to leave us. Glad to hear you're staying

I hope you guys get everything worked out. Best of luck.