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Do I Pass 100%

Guest Jay_son

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Guest Jay_son

Guest Jay_son

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Any ideas on how to look a bit more my age? I AM 30!!!!! <youthful>

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I fixed your image tag to get the picture to show up.
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Guest Donna Jean

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Jayson....Honey, you need to fix that link...

It won't even copy/ paste into my browser and work...

Give it another try...ok?

Huggs

Donna Jean

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Guest chngnwnd

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You definitely pass...As for looking older - that's a tough one. The only thing that stands out is that the shirt you have on fits a lttle too well. A slightly larger size might help. Also, guys tend to wear the same clothes until they rot off their bodies - not sure what you can do about having more aged look to your clothes for casual everyday wear though...

Bobbie

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Guest Donna Jean

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Yep!

Worked this time, Hon.....

And, I have to say that the wait was well worth it!

Dang! You ARE a man!

Not one iota of doubt in my eyes!

Donna Jean

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Guest Tess

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Yes, you pass well. 100%. I don't know how old people think you are. No-one thought I looked thirty until I was about forty, which didn't bother me at all.

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You look great and looking younger is something time will take care of without any effort on your part. I guarantee it.

Seriously-why do you want to look older?

Trying to look older will probably cause you to pass less because it will emphasize the slight difference in men and women's skin. If you look like a 30 year old man with the skin of a 30 year old woman people will unconsciously start to inventory other things to see if they match. Just human nature.

I'd never have been able to pass at your age-people always thought I was still in my teens. And that was as my biological gender! I thought it was funny-annoying sometimes but funny.

So yes you look great-and enjoy youth youthful look. It doesn't seem to be that great a disparity with your true age.

JJ

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Dang I forgot to give you my tip for looking older-

Just keep living.

Absolutely guaranteed-never fails

The old man

JJ

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Guest 91curiouskitten

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My former step dad has looked liek keanu reeves for ten years, youth is a good thing ^^ But yeah you pass, the beer made me laugh though lol, don play sterotypes now :P

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You pass yes, but look like a teenage boy. You are pre T right? T will help you look more your age. Until then I am not sure there much you can do to look older.

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Yeah, I am pre T, looking like a teenage boy isn't so bad on the grand scheme of things, it's just a little cringe worthy when out with the other half and the whole ID thing :mellow:

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You look very, very masculine but I don't know what you could do to look older. I can see why it annoys you - you look young enough to be 20!

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Also, guys tend to wear the same clothes until they rot off their bodies - not sure what you can do about having more aged look to your clothes for casual everyday wear though...

Ewww!

Lol, tips on how to tell men from women = sniff? No need to get T guys, just roll in some mud!

As for aging, draw on fake wrinkles? :P I dunno, sorry. I get ID'd all the time too so I know how irritating it can be.

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Guest Jay_son

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You could get that hair dye that adds a bit of gray... I forget what it's called.

between me and you, I already have a couple of greys coming through! :blink::lol:

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Guest Jay_son

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30 year old man to me. My son just turned 30 so I know, why worry?

Lizzy

Thanks Lizzy, its just a pain getting ID'd and the ID still being female... :banghead:

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you pass but you look younger and you need to bulk I think but good. The link is ok just paste it after you remove the imgs. It works perfectly the same way I think.

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Any ideas on how to look a bit more my age? I AM 30!!!!! <youthful>

You are FtM so without even really looking.. yeah... you pass. That is the one good thing you guys get over us. We get the better SRS but you guys get the ability to blend way better than we ever could, especially after a year or so of T.

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Guest Ezzy

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Lookin pretty good for pre T, i know how u feel tho bout bein ID'd all the time.

I have the same problem, except my id photo was taken after id come back from vacation,

so i have a double identity crisis tryna convince people that the dark arab lookin guy with long hair

in my ID is me. :lol:

But ye, i think for pre t you look about 20,

like lvmyftm was saying, T would prolly make you look more your age ^_^

you gotta share the secret to youthfullness wit me man, lol.

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