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Guest Lee-Asher Geo-James

I just had like a breakdown and still am.

Just a crying breakdown...

I miss the physicalness of a relationship. You know like cuddling and stuff. Hugs...

I don't like to see my mum and her bf hug... It makes me sad

I don't like to go any where because I don't want to see people being affectionate with each other.

I hardly get hugs from my mum...

I give my grandma and grandpa a hug when I leave their house...

But it's not the same...

There's no one to hold me and tell me it'll be okay...

I miss that...

And I can't stop crying and there's no one here...

:(

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Guest sarah f

I am sorry you are in a rough patch right now. I wish I was there right now to give you a hugg. How about a Laura's Hugg.

HUGG!!!!

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Welcome to my world!

Only I have never had anyone and it is highly unlikely that I ever will, I am doing my best to deal with that.

I have friends and people who care but I lack now and always have that special someone that wants me as much ad I want them.

How do you deal with it - you cry a lot and then you go out and do things that you enjoy, do things with your friends and enjoy your hobbies.

I would like to give you a list of the advantages of being alone but at the moment I am in one of those depressed times so maybe in a few days I can tell you.

Thank God their is more to life than just relationships - there is beauty everywhere and so many things to do, there is love of a different type for me and you.

Learn to enjoy solitude and rejoice in it's silence - sometimes alone is best.

Love ya,

Sally

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Many,many of us live our lives without that touch you seek.

And we can live happy rroductive lives with oter joys and rewards,

Sure everyone wants that-but life doesn't come with guarantees and you'll make yourself miserable if you make your happiness depend on abving someone to sare it with, You can't chase relationships-they happen. I've never seen a permanent relationship develop from trying so desperately to find one. and I've seen a lot of life by now.

So take a deep breath put your head up and go on with your life. Love comes wen you least expect it and aren't looking for it.

Love & Huggs

JJ

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Guest Lee-Asher Geo-James

I want to make it clear that I am still with Karl.

It's just the physical part that I miss is all.

Sorry for not being clear on that...

And hugs to all that gave them to me.

(Sorry I am not replying to each and everyone of you. I am a tad tired and don't know what to say...)

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