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It Is Time For Me To Move


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Guest Emily Ray

Hi Everyone,

A few weeks ago I was on here worried that I would have to move. My roommate has been complaning as of late and making statements that aren't as nice as they could be. At first he was making a big deal about me not being a female on my ID and worried about his saftey in TJ by being associated with me. I took care of the ID part which I thing really surprised him and yesterday he was just in a sour mood. He came home from shopping and walked straight into the Kitchen without even saying hi or a male grunt or anything. I left soon afterwards and when I returned he just stayed in his bedroom which was fine with me. I am through walking on eggshells around him and I think I need to find a place of my own.

Huggs

Emily

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Hi Emily

There are so many things in this world that make us unhappy but are beyond out control that I believe we should change all those we can.

Your life has been unfolding so beautifully lately it is a shame to have this mar it.

I hope you can find a place that is safer and a roommate who will appreciate you for the remarkable woman you are!

Hugs

JJ

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Guest Donna Jean

Well, Emily, Hon....it's time...

And I'm certainly hoping that you are considering the States......OK?

LOVE & HUGGS!

Donna Jean

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Guest sarah f

Emily good for you girl. You don't need to change for him or anyone. I too hope it is back to the states when you move. I will feel much better about your safety here. I hope your are able to move soon.

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Hi Emily,

Just wanted to let you know that we care about you and support you in whatever you decide to do about your situation. We want you to be as safe as you can.

Huggs,

Opal

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Guest Emily Ray

Hey everyone,

I have decided to move to Minnesota in September. Most likely minneapolis near the light rail line. I understand that the VA is right on the track so to speak and so it will be ideal for me. Thanks for the support. I told my roommate last night and he tok the news very well and we are again friends with out issues. The main cause of the problem was centered around security. TJ is a dangerous place and not only was I at risk but he was at well. It would have been unfair of me to ask him to carry such a burden. He is planning on visiting me in Minneapolis and maybe we can go fishing or something. I still like that, though I rarely catch anything!

Huggs,

Emily

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Guest Donna Jean

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Minnesota, eh?

Well, you'll go from one weather extream to another....lol

But, I'm seriously happy that you're getting out of TJ....

I'm wishing you the best!

HUGGS!

Donna Jean

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Yea Emily!

That's a drastic change in climate and culture but it will be so good to feel safe!

I'm happy you have resolved your issues with your roommate and have a friend back. I can understand his concerns.

And Minnesota is such a fishing paradise. Do you do winter sports? I just thought of all the winter fashions you can wear now!

Hugs

JJ

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Guest Micha

Awesome news! Unless of course you become a Wild fan, then we may be at odds. :lol: Kidding. . .Wild are cool, when not facing the Avs. ;)

Hopefully this will be a safer environment (albeit much, much colder) than TJ. Also glad you and your friend have an understanding that you do. It's wonderful.

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Guest Angelgrlsue

Hi Emily. :-)

So glad you and your roomate are at better terms with each other. Minnesota! Wow Emily that is a drastic change. I have been there many times in the past, just to visit and go fishing, love to fish out there for Walleye,yum....:-)At least you will be back in the states and out of TJ, I still do not know why you moved to TJ in the first place, probably explains it in one of your posts I have not read yet though.

Hugs,

Suzie

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