Penis Envy

[Guest KageBoy171]

Please tell me I'm not the only one?

I know they aren't pretty, but does anyone else feel jealous of them?

I want one. : /

[Guest sarah f]

I would trade with you anyday. If it were only that easy. Someones trash is anothers treasure I guess.

[Guest Donna Jean]

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Well, a while back I suggested a MTF-FTM "swap meet"

"I'll trade you two of these for one of those!"

Donna Jean

[Guest Emily_MI]

I would trade with you anyday. If it were only that easy. Someones trash is anothers treasure I guess.

lol, you beat me to that one and I feel the exact same, I absolutely HATE mine and will be happy to see it gone one day.

[Guest Sam_P]

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Well, a while back I suggested a MTF-FTM "swap meet"

"I'll trade you two of these for one of those!"

Donna Jean

LOL, this absolutely should be made into a comic strip.

[Guest N.Chaos]

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Well, a while back I suggested a MTF-FTM "swap meet"

"I'll trade you two of these for one of those!"

Donna Jean

Lmao...I have this conversation with my girlfriend's brother all the time.

I keep telling him we should swap bodies and be done with it.

[Remus]

I tend to try and ignore my envy, as I know that, unlike the general dysphoria, there's nothing I or anyone else can really do about it.

However, when I do think about it and am brutally honest with myself - yes, very envious and desirous indeed. To stand up (and aim!) to pee, to be inside someone without the aid of straps and silicon, to be able to father a child if so desired, or to donate sperm, to (for want of a better phrase, sorry) "whip it out" in the shower and so on (*ahem* ), to be able to 'go down' on someone and know what it feels like from personal(/recent/ongoing) experience, to have awkward erections, to have not awkward erections, all of that. A sort of desperate, aching envy and sadness, to want all of that, yet know it'll never, ever happen. *sigh*

So yeah mate, I know exactly what you mean. And apart from momentary distractions like work etc., haven't quite figured out what to do about it yet. Ugh.

[Guest Keane]

All the time, and manly bits look like a removable attachment that you can just pop off, but unfortunately it turns out to be really hard to do that. XD Seriously! It reminds me of how you can pop the feet off of Bratz dolls. o_O

[Guest Carden]

All the time, and manly bits look like a removable attachment that you can just pop off, but unfortunately it turns out to be really hard to do that. XD Seriously! It reminds me of how you can pop the feet off of Bratz dolls. o_O

That was possibly the funniest comparison I have read in a while.

[Guest KageBoy171]

I would trade with you anyday. If it were only that easy. Someones trash is anothers treasure I guess.

Let's do it. XD

Well, a while back I suggested a MTF-FTM "swap meet"

"I'll trade you two of these for one of those!"

Donna Jean

XD I so wish!

LOL, this absolutely should be made into a comic strip.

What would you name it? Haha.

I tend to try and ignore my envy, as I know that, unlike the general dysphoria, there's nothing I or anyone else can really do about it.

However, when I do think about it and am brutally honest with myself - yes, very envious and desirous indeed. To stand up (and aim!) to pee, to be inside someone without the aid of straps and silicon, to be able to father a child if so desired, or to donate sperm, to (for want of a better phrase, sorry) "whip it out" in the shower and so on (*ahem* ), to be able to 'go down' on someone and know what it feels like from personal(/recent/ongoing) experience, to have awkward erections, to have not awkward erections, all of that. A sort of desperate, aching envy and sadness, to want all of that, yet know it'll never, ever happen. *sigh*

So yeah mate, I know exactly what you mean. And apart from momentary distractions like work etc., haven't quite figured out what to do about it yet. Ugh.

Oh man, you said it all perfectly! You have a way with words, haha. That's exactly how I feel.

[Guest Elizabeth K]

GAVE mine away the other day ... GAVE IT AWAY!

They returned it. Said it wasn't working right.

DANG - too far into HRT now I guess.

Maybe I can donate it to GoodWill? Now there is a tax credit receipt I wanna see!

Lizzy

[Guest Cowboy]

I tend to try and ignore my envy, as I know that, unlike the general dysphoria, there's nothing I or anyone else can really do about it.

However, when I do think about it and am brutally honest with myself - yes, very envious and desirous indeed. To stand up (and aim!) to pee, to be inside someone without the aid of straps and silicon, to be able to father a child if so desired, or to donate sperm, to (for want of a better phrase, sorry) "whip it out" in the shower and so on (*ahem* ), to be able to 'go down' on someone and know what it feels like from personal(/recent/ongoing) experience, to have awkward erections, to have not awkward erections, all of that. A sort of desperate, aching envy and sadness, to want all of that, yet know it'll never, ever happen. *sigh*

So yeah mate, I know exactly what you mean. And apart from momentary distractions like work etc., haven't quite figured out what to do about it yet. Ugh.

what he said.

*sigh*

I did like the swap meet idea tho lol

[Guest My_Genesis]

I tend to try and ignore my envy, as I know that, unlike the general dysphoria, there's nothing I or anyone else can really do about it.

However, when I do think about it and am brutally honest with myself - yes, very envious and desirous indeed. To stand up (and aim!) to pee, to be inside someone without the aid of straps and silicon, to be able to father a child if so desired, or to donate sperm, to (for want of a better phrase, sorry) "whip it out" in the shower and so on (*ahem* ), to be able to 'go down' on someone and know what it feels like from personal(/recent/ongoing) experience, to have awkward erections, to have not awkward erections, all of that. A sort of desperate, aching envy and sadness, to want all of that, yet know it'll never, ever happen. *sigh*

So yeah mate, I know exactly what you mean. And apart from momentary distractions like work etc., haven't quite figured out what to do about it yet. Ugh.

Exactly that. And it's been getting worse. Every time I see a guy (bioguy that is) I think "they are able to make their own testosterone, they have all the parts, they can do (all that stuff you implied lol) and how long will it be before I can have all that?" I refuse to believe it will be never.

So in short, my penis envy is terrible.

[Guest BrandonIThink]

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Well, a while back I suggested a MTF-FTM "swap meet"

"I'll trade you two of these for one of those!"

Donna Jean

By far the best idea I've heard in a LONG time....

And yeah, every time I'm publically dwelling on my *ahem* situation, I look at the bioguys around and just think things like 'Physically, you have everything I want, and you don't even appreciate it, cause it's always just been there. Why should I have to work so hard to get to a place you were born into?' And the thoughts just carry on from there :S

[Guest Lady.Violette]

I guess we (MtF) are luckier in a way over FtMs. We can actually grow boobs and can just get it "chopped off"

But then again. I think you guys have other advantages over us. You're feet and hands might grow, you grow a beard and your voice gets deeper.

I wish our voice would just get higher, my hands and feet would get smaller and that my beard would just stop growing..... I only wish /sigh...

Although.... Im very very blessed in a way, for my hands are actually very small for a guy. They are 4 and three quarters of an inch in length, give or take.

[Guest My_Genesis]

By far the best idea I've heard in a LONG time....

And yeah, every time I'm publically dwelling on my *ahem* situation, I look at the bioguys around and just think things like 'Physically, you have everything I want, and you don't even appreciate it, cause it's always just been there. Why should I have to work so hard to get to a place you were born into?' And the thoughts just carry on from there :S

EXACTLY.

[Guest ShortyT]

Please tell me I'm not the only one?

I know they aren't pretty, but does anyone else feel jealous of them?

I want one. : /

I think they are quite pretty actually. Well, some more than others, but yeah.

I tend to try and ignore my envy, as I know that, unlike the general dysphoria, there's nothing I or anyone else can really do about it.

However, when I do think about it and am brutally honest with myself - yes, very envious and desirous indeed. To stand up (and aim!) to pee, to be inside someone without the aid of straps and silicon, to be able to father a child if so desired, or to donate sperm, to (for want of a better phrase, sorry) "whip it out" in the shower and so on (*ahem* ), to be able to 'go down' on someone and know what it feels like from personal(/recent/ongoing) experience, to have awkward erections, to have not awkward erections, all of that. A sort of desperate, aching envy and sadness, to want all of that, yet know it'll never, ever happen. *sigh*

So yeah mate, I know exactly what you mean. And apart from momentary distractions like work etc., haven't quite figured out what to do about it yet. Ugh.

And that. Definitely.

[Guest Nikki A]

MY GF HAS PENIS ENVY! but she says she just wants one for a day. i stopped her before she said why XD

hugs, Nikki

[Guest harvester52]

Ditto to everybody else... and it's been getting worse for me lately. >.<

[Guest Melanie Dawn]

I'd happily give mine away, but i know they need the "material" to make me whole...sorry

Melanie Dawn

[Guest My_Genesis]

Ditto to everybody else... and it's been getting worse for me lately. >.<

Same here. I really hope in the near future we have better techniques that will give us what a biomale has. If I have to keep putting up with the penis envy, especially if it is only going to get worse once I'm on T (and after top surgery, when it gets worse for a lot of guys)....

[Guest StrandedOutThere]

My envy has gotten better. My girlfriend never mentions my equipment and seems comfortable with my body as it is. Having a supportive partner really makes a difference.

I'd still like to have typical male equipment, but not having it doesn't ruin my day right now.

[Guest lvmyftm]

I tend to try and ignore my envy, as I know that, unlike the general dysphoria, there's nothing I or anyone else can really do about it.

However, when I do think about it and am brutally honest with myself - yes, very envious and desirous indeed. To stand up (and aim!) to pee, to be inside someone without the aid of straps and silicon, to be able to father a child if so desired, or to donate sperm, to (for want of a better phrase, sorry) "whip it out" in the shower and so on (*ahem* ), to be able to 'go down' on someone and know what it feels like from personal(/recent/ongoing) experience, to have awkward erections, to have not awkward erections, all of that. A sort of desperate, aching envy and sadness, to want all of that, yet know it'll never, ever happen. *sigh*

So yeah mate, I know exactly what you mean. And apart from momentary distractions like work etc., haven't quite figured out what to do about it yet. Ugh.

It isn't just you guys who have that longing for you guys to be whole and fully functional. We S/O's feel it too. I can't even express how badly I would like for him to be able to feel what bio guys feel during sex. (trying to keep it PG here, you all know what I am talking about ) Sometimes I think this bothers me more than it does him. Don't get me wrong I love him just the way he is, but there is still that feeling that he is getting jipt and wishing there was a way to change that. Or the frustration that I feel for him (not frustrated WITH him, but for him) It's so clear that he was meant to be male, nothing feminine about him even before transtition, it frustrates me that he wasn't born as he should of been.

[Guest My_Genesis]

It isn't just you guys who have that longing for you guys to be whole and fully functional. We S/O's feel it too. I can't even express how badly I would like for him to be able to feel what bio guys feel during sex. (trying to keep it PG here, you all know what I am talking about ) Sometimes I think this bothers me more than it does him. Don't get me wrong I love him just the way he is, but there is still that feeling that he is getting jipt and wishing there was a way to change that. Or the frustration that I feel for him (not frustrated WITH him, but for him) It's so clear that he was meant to be male, nothing feminine about him even before transtition, it frustrates me that he wasn't born as he should of been.

Hey guess what? I went to my GT this evening and she told me that there is hope (in regards to getting the "right" parts.) Especially if you are transitioning at a relatively younger age. I was telling her how every time I see a guy all I can think about is how they were born with the right parts and I wasn't. About how unfair it is. You know what she told me? And it's gonna sound obvious but really it has helped me and I did not even think to do it... every time I see a guy and start thinking those things (I also mentioned shirtless guys make me want to have that chest) think "one day, I will have everything they have. Except it will be better than what they have." Because, she mentioned how many guys don't take care of their bodies. So if you or your bf are experiencing these issues with the penis envy/dysphoria crap, I think if you keep telling yourselves that it will help you feel better.

And yes, I know exactly what you are talking about

[Guest Lelouch]

Same here. I wish I had one. Some days I think about it, others I don't.