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Greetings! I started T in June and have been going by my chosen name for the last few months at home with my girlfriend. I've told my boss and several folks at work and am currently working with HR for "coming out" at work (engineer at a nuclear plant with 1300 folks, so it's a bit complicated). At work, we're preparing to tell my immediate work group and the expectation is that folks will start using my chosen name and the correct pronoun the next week. I'm guessing family will take a bit longer to make the change....

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Hello, Mitch!

Welcome to the Playground...

I'm Donna Jean...

Hey, Hon...I've seen you around for a day or two and I was wondering when you'd make yourself known,....and here you are!

So, come on in and have a seat...I'll get you a hot slice of pizza and a cold drink...

Sit back and relax....OK?

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It's nice to have you here....

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Welcome to the Playground, Mitch.

Wow, a nuclear engineer. I'm impressed. Hey, I've always wondered, is it true you guys glow in the dark? :unsure::P

Anyway, don't mind me. I'm one silly girl. Please do post in any forum, and someone will always respond with good advice. After five posts you will get access to all the site features, including the Private Message (PM) system.

Have fun, make friends, and learn all you can.

Carolyn Marie

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Hi Mitch,

Welcome to the group. As a fellow newbie I have found everyone here supportive and friendly. It sounds like you work for a good company that has a good diversity policy. A lot of us just have to kiss their current job goodbye when starting to transition. It is nice to see some progression in the workplace. The company I work for also has a good policy and HR will help with the transition. However, I will probably not use it as I am only a year or so away from retirement so will probably just keep pretending to be a boy at work.

By the way do you know Homer Simpson? (Grin)

Mia

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Hi Mitch,

Welcome to Laura's! Nice to have you join us. This is an amazing site with lots of info, plus many wonderful people who have gone through what you are now going through with the transition.

Vanna will likely be along soon to give you the details about joining the Chat side of Laura's if you are interested in that.

Please feel free to post more as you are comfortable in doing so.

Hugs,

Opal

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Hi Mitch.

Welcome to Laura's.

Sounds like you have things going really well! This is a great place to hang out, share experiences and find friends. I look forward to hearing more about you!

JJ

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Hi Mitch, welcome!

What kind of stuff do you get to do at the nuclear plant? Sorry, I'm curious because I'm studying physics at university at the moment. :P

Congrats on the T and good luck with coming out to everyone at work! :)

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