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I've Been Away Too Long


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Im so sorry I've been away for so long. My wife and I just had our 4th child and he's taking a lot of my time at the moment. We did have a rather enlightening discussion on my crossdressing though. Recently she got upset at me for wearing one of my outfits to bed during one of our "get reaquainted" moments. Afterwards I asked her what was wrong and she stated she wasn't happy about me wearing what I had worn. (Stockings, garterbelt, thong, bra) I asked why since you've always enjoyed that. She told me she was upset because I looked so good in them, and she felt so fat and is stuck wearing "granny panties". Well, I sat down with her and reassured her that I would do everything I could to help her get back into shape, and until she is I would cut back on how often she actually see's me wearing certain things. (mostly my corsets, teddies, and and such racey lingerie items) So the short of it is that we averted a possible blow up and came to a nice compromise on the subject. (I suppose I should keep the new super tiht maid outfit put away for a while.) Now on to the new baby lol. He had been giving me a very hard time for a couple weeks until I puled out one of my old tricks. I grabbed one of my bras, rolled up an old pair of socks and stuffed away lol. After I snuggled him in he totally relaxed and things have been great ever since. That alone really makes me wish I had my very own breasts lol. Ok all, I just thought I'd better stop by and let you all know where I disappeared too and that I hadn't fallen of the earth somehow. LOVES!!!

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Hi Andrea!

Welcome back to Laura's. Yes, sounds like you have been busy with a newborn and all. Glad it all worked out OK with your wife.

We made the 9,000 mark in members while you were gone, and it has been a busy summer for all.

Please keep checking in whenever you can.!

Huggs,

Opal

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Guest Donna Jean

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Hey, Andrea!

Welcome back into the fold..

It's nice to see you again...and congratulations on the new one!

Please stick around a bit and post and visit with us...OK?

Huggs

Donna Jean

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Guest ChloëC

Gee Andrea,

You've made me jealous. Years ago (like about 26) our youngest would start to absolutely scream about an hour after her 10PM feeding and continue for another 2-3 hours. Her mother was totally exhausted by that time of night, so I would walk with her and rock her, and do all those 'Dad' things, and now I realize that our child was most likely missing something and I would have been thrilled to provide it. Oh that Laura's was around 26 years ago.

Welcome back, and already I'm enjoying your posts!

Hugs

Chloë

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Welcome back, Andrea, and congrats on your newborn! :D

Wow, hon, I'm impressed with your negotiating skills. You really pulled one out of the fire with your wife. I hope all is peaceful again. She will be back to her old slim self in no time, with your help and encouragement.

Carolyn Marie

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