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Guest KyleMicheal

hello, EVERYONE!

I'm not sure if anyone cares, but...

I had an accident. My boyfriend and I got together and now...

I'm pregnant.

I don't know what to think of this. I'm scared but excited and...everything. I'm 16. I'd have it before I'm 17.

ARGHUHAGHUGH

I don't even think my parents would care that much. I'm already making money, being a financial adviser (really, no joke).

My dad may not really care because "it means I'm straight" (all the wrong reasons, but still...)

My head's gonna "splode" with mixed emotions.

Wow, this is random and pointless...

byebye

--KMM

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Guest Drew

oh my god! :o ...wow...that must be...well, scary to say the least...how do you feel?...stupid question but really, how do you feel? i have recent experience with teenage pregnancies so if you need to talk feel free to PM me.

Drew

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hello, EVERYONE!

I'm not sure if anyone cares, but...

I had an accident. My boyfriend and I got together and now...

I'm pregnant.

I don't know what to think of this. I'm scared but excited and...everything. I'm 16. I'd have it before I'm 17.

ARGHUHAGHUGH

I don't even think my parents would care that much. I'm already making money, being a financial adviser (really, no joke).

My dad may not really care because "it means I'm straight" (all the wrong reasons, but still...)

My head's gonna "splode" with mixed emotions.

Wow, this is random and pointless...

byebye

--KMM

Kyle, Don't ever think that we don't care because we do. So, you made a mistake. We've all made mistakes at one time or another so you're not alone in that respect. Being pregnant isn't going to change what you are. Please stay with us and keep us informed as to what's happening. We care.

MaryEllen

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Guest StrandedOutThere

Holy crap, man! Of course we care! That's kind of a big deal. Try to be calm and keep a level head about things. Whatever you do, don't keep this to yourself. My vote is to get it out in the open, fairly soon.

PM me anytime if you just need an understanding ear...or eyes I guess it'd be in this case. I'm old. I have some life experience and stuff.

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Guest Jack Solomon

My god! That's a shocker, I was not expecting that. I agree with Drew, that must be confusing and probably more than a little scary. Let us know how you're doing. MaryEllen said it best.

Solomon

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Hi Kyle,

I don't know what your intentions are regarding this situation. Very probably you haven't decided either but I want you to know that we are here for you. Please keep us informed as to how you are doing. We're a family here and when one of our brothers or sisters is in trouble, we will rally around them. Make no mistake about that. A thought I just had. You could be in a situation that many transmen would like to be in. You could be a dad to your own biological child. Whatever you decide to do, just know that we are here for you and we are with you 100%. We care.

Hugs,

MaryEllen

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Guest KyleMicheal

To all of those who are wondering how I'm feeling:

It's a myriad of feelings. I'm a little ecstatic, sad because I'm not sure of the outcome, scared about what my parents will say, relieved that you all care, and a lot of other stuff that I can't identify. It's dizzying!

And another thing: I feel so good because I have a motive not to do anything bad to myself, because it's not just me.

To those who are wondering what my decision is:

I want to keep it, but I'm only 16. My boyfriend is 18. I don't know if I can actually take care of it. And there's school. My boyfriend is actually offering to watch over it for me while I'm at school, since he's graduating in a few weeks.

Other stuff:

I'm a bit concerned about the kid. I think a kid should have a female figure in his/her life. Or maybe being raised by such young parents might do something psychologically.

Anyways, thanks everyone for caring. :)

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Guest Matthew-L
To those who are wondering what my decision is:

I want to keep it, but I'm only 16. My boyfriend is 18. I don't know if I can actually take care of it. And there's school. My boyfriend is actually offering to watch over it for me while I'm at school, since he's graduating in a few weeks.

Anyways, thanks everyone for caring. :)

i think you are very strong for deciding to go through with this

i know alot of people who have given up when in your position (*cough* my parents)

people here care about you and are here to support you when you need it :)

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Guest GoldenKirbichu

Hmm, good luck with the pregnancy. I hope it goes well for you and that everything turns out okay. I myself would be appalled if it happened to me, but... hey.

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Guest raydub

its wonderfully scary, exciting news youve got here dude! (how did i miss THIS strand the other day?!)

you sound like youre getting things worked out in your head, which is good. im happy for you.

id like to give you a little hope. my s/o was sixteen when she had her daughter and did most of it ALONE - so at your age and with help you CAN raise a child. its great that youre guy is willing to take some responsibility so you can finish school. its a lot of work, but this CAN be done.. and you'll have tons of moral support (at least) from us here.

Ray

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Guest Sheila

hi kyle,

i care kyle and i hope everything is going well. my mom had my older brother when she was 16 and numerous other people i know had children when they were 16. so i hope age isn't a issue here. you will grow up quick thouugh. just stay healthy for the baby's sake. i've never been involved with anybody directly with this particular issue so i can't say much except i wish the best for you.

sheila

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Guest JayJaye

All a child needs are loving parents who are kind, caring, loving, supportive, and meet his/her needs. The rest is just fluff. Having a child is a huge scary deal, and trying to figure out the logistics is impossible (finances, schedules, etc). In the end it will work itself out (assuming you become a parent after all this).

Good luck. And ditto on getting family support asap. And we're here.

Jay

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