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Oh Dear My Hair!


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So I got a new job...yay me! Only problem is I got it in male mode because I needed it to get the money to see a GT therefore I don't have a GT and am currently living most of my life in male mode. I went to orientation and they made a comment about getting my hair cut which made that voice in my head saying "finally you acknowledge you're a girl" cringe a little. Especially since I just got up the courage to see my hair through the awkward fro stage in hopes it behaves better around shoulder length. But vanity isn't enough of a reason to screw up a job, so if they insist I'll have to get my hair cut. Which brings me to the question is there any female hair cuts that will look professional on a guy but accentuate my feminity? I have really curly brownish blonde hair that just hit about 2 and a half inches. I really don't want to go with the barber suggestion seeing as how I live right outside a military base.

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Guest NatashaJade

Perhaps not a barber, but a stylist? If you can keep your bangs long, there are some cute short cuts that might work. I would get a fashion magazine and see if there are some short cuts you like that might suit you and what you need.

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Tasha

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Guest sarah f

I agree to see a stylist not a barber. They have many trained stylists that can help you with what hair you have. They can also show you how to style to look more girly.

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A stylist is the definitely the best way to go. Are you in a large area? If so there may be a store / salon that caters to people like us. I am in a similar situation in that I had cut my hair shorter last fall for work and now have been letting it get longer again. In fact my mate has told me she does not want to cut my hair short again as it is just now starting to look nice. There is a store / salon about 50 miles from my home that carries wigs, makeup, and clothes for gender folks. They were a great help when I got my wig. I am going to visit them in the next couple of weeks and see what they can do for me. Maybe there is someplace like that near you.

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