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Kia Ora,

:rolleyes: For the M2Fs in transition...

:unsure: If somebody calls you a 'B.I.T.C.H' or 'silly cow' or the likes, would you be offended :angry: or take it as a form of complement [an 'affirmation' of their acceptance of your true gender identity :groupwavereversed::ThanxSmiley: ]?

There's always at lease two ways of looking at things...

:rolleyes: "Life at times can be a real 'beach' and I love it! :groupwavereversed:

Metta Zenda :)

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Kia Ora, Zenda

Context is everything, hon. I love to kid around, and I can be playfully sarcastic, as those who know me around this site can well attest.

So I don't have a thin skin. How I would react would depend on the words, but even more on the context in which they were said.

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Carolyn Marie

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Guest Robin Winter

Kia Ora,

:rolleyes: For the M2Fs in transition...

:unsure: If somebody calls you a 'B.I.T.C.H' or 'silly cow' or the likes, would you be offended :angry: or take it as a form of complement [an 'affirmation' of their acceptance of your true gender identity :groupwavereversed::ThanxSmiley: ]?

There's always at lease two ways of looking at things...

:rolleyes: "Life at times can be a real 'beach' and I love it! :groupwavereversed:

Metta Zenda :)

I don't take it as a compliment, but I'm pleased nonetheless. I call myself the b-word all the time lol.

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Guest Penelope

Isn't the connotation less about size with the phrase "silly cow" in British countries?

I always understood it to imply obstinate stupidity rather than volume or girth.

P.

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Thanks Penelope! I read a lot of books by Brits and that was more the impression I got.

Funny how connotations can be different even though the language is predominately the same.

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John

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Guest KimberlyF

My wife and her BF have called each other B's since I've known them. Now in the past few months she and I have taken to calling each other that. Guess if I'm offended in the slightest.

Kim

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Kia Ora,

:rolleyes: In the UK[especially in London where I'm originally from] and also both here in NZ and also Australia, "Silly Cow' is often used when I woman does something wrong[makes a mistake]or "she's an ol cow!" if a woman is being nasty towards someone or "Poor Cow!" if she's having problems...Cow just means female..

Metta Zenda :)

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Guest Areyan

hehe, i had a chuckle reading this one... on the other side of the trans spectrum - if my girl gets moody and calls me a penis or an ****** i feel validated as a guy. perhaps it is silly but i prefer the male insult to being called the b word any day. ;)

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To tell the truth I have been called so many names in my life that I just don't really pay much attention to what people call me anymore - getting older and my hearing is becoming less acute - not so bad really.

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Sally

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