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I’ve been wearing a bra with false breasts for almost a year, but i too have started to feel uncomfortable due to my breast growth. Yay!
So i’ve switched to some bra pads instead. It doesn’t feel as heavy or “natural”, but the lack of pressure is a definite plus.
Now I just need to find an organization to donate my old breasts to. Anyone know one? 😀
mara
@JaycieI was in the Boston area for about 10 years with my previous (#3) wife. My job for 37 years was overwhelmingly male dominated. During those 10 years, my best friend was a woman. She came out to Chicago a few years after I left Boston to be the "Best Man" at my (most recent) wedding. Years ago by, and we exchange Christmas cards and occasional birthday cards. Sadly, I haven't told her that I'm getting divorced and transitioning. Lack of courage. Soon. Same for the friend who cut me off 5 years ago - maybe.
Funny, it only occurred to me as I wrote about the past regarding my chosen middle name. Renee means reborn, and that was my conscious reason for adopting it. I realized that, subliminally, it was because of Renee Richards.
@MmindyAgain, thank you from the bottom of my heart, and God bless you.
Hugs to all at TGP.❤️
Hmnn, worth a shot I mean using that angle [thank you] but issue with him is its his way and his way only, there is no compromising. I will try your way next time the topic comes up and will report back.
I hope it feels really good to know that your wife supports you as she does. That she sees you as more than a collection of body parts and as a person who desires to be more themselves.
Today I went out dressed as myself for the very first time. It was only to the garage and back but that is far more than it has ever been before. I also made an appointment with the local incursion clinic. That's a very big step on my part. To me it mean I want to move forward on my transition. Gods, I'm so unsure. I skipped my last appointment. I HAVE to keep this one
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Hannah,
I pray for you and your happiness with friends. Friends you make as Hannah, the woman you should have always been. Hannah is your chance to break the cycle of pushing people away. You will be okay, and I pray eventually happy.
Hugs,
Mindy🐛🏳️⚧️🦋
Maybe try this approach; ask him to put himself in your place, and come up with a couple of suggestions that he thinks are good. That kind of puts him in the "driver's seat" and allows him to see your side of things. Might not work, but you never know.
Carolyn Marie
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