Jump to content
  • Welcome to the TransPulse Forums!

    We offer a safe, inclusive community for transgender and gender non-conforming folks, as well as their loved ones, to find support and information.  Join today!

Day In The Life Of Bc


Guest Father Ford

Recommended Posts

Guest harvester52

Today was perhaps one of the most ridiculous days of my life aside from my 18th birthday, and we just won't go there.

It started when I woke up. Generally, when I don't have to work, I get up around 9:00 AM. I pull the sheets back and climb out of bed with a sleepy haze in my eyes as I reach for my glasses. By the time I get them on my face, I'm standing up and ready to run to the bathroom for my morning leak. Sometimes, if I'm zealous enough, I'll bring my clean clothes to the bathroom with me so I can shower after I use the toilet. Today was no such day. My hind went from my mattress to the toilet, then right into my computer chair, and I sat on the internet, singing to one of my chat buddies. Granted, I was supposed to ride the bus down to my mom's house, and wanted to go before the heat of the day. It takes five hours and five different buses to get there, so I was supposed to start early.

I then decided that maybe I should leave a little later so I could be in the air conditioned bus during the heat of the day. I stayed on the internet, singing to my chat buddy on Skype. By about 11:30, I decided I should catch the bus. On a whim, I also quit my job at Wendy's, and decided that I am going to move back in with my mother, who is supportive. That's the milestone in all this. It was hard to do it, but on the way to the bus stop, I passed Wendy's, and I waltzed in there with a piece of paper that read "BC Hall puts in his two weeks notice"... wow, huh? It was liberating in the same sense that it was stressful. I couldn't believe that I just quit my job.

I left Wendy's and continued on. When I was across from the street from the bus stop, waiting on the walk signal, the bus came and left... without me. I punched air and decided I'd just wait for the next one. Having no idea when it came next, I sat down on the lawn near the bus stop under a tree, and pulled out my laptop. My eyes were locked on the lower right hand corner of my screen, waiting for a WiFi signal to show up. Nothing. I stood up, held my laptop to the heavens, and prayed for some kind of signal. I walked around a little more and finally found a weak, one-bar signal. I sat down, and siphened somebody's unprotected WiFi to check when the next bus came, and then sat there chatting for the next hour 'til it did.

It was uneventful until I got to the mall where I had to make a transfer. I was waiting at the bus stop, and sat down on a bench next to this old guy. He looked at me, and noticed that I had a piece of sound equipment sticking out of my laptop bag, and said, "Hey, you must be a musician." I said, "Yeah, kind of. I sing a bit and I'm a sound engineer." The guy then started talking about his career as a songwriter, and how he wrote these famous songs from the 60's. It was then that things started to make me feel good. Two smokin' hot chicks walked to the bus stop, and this old guy looked at me, and said, "Lookie there, one for me and one for you!" He then continued saying, "You're really big, you should be playin' football. You must lift weights." On and on. A complete masculine conversation and honestly, it felt good. He then invited me to his birthday party where there'll be 400 people, some famous band and he wanted me to run sound. It was a pretty amazing experience, but I don't think I'll be going to that party because this guy didn't even give me his phone number or his name. I think he was jerkin' my chain about the songwriter thing. It doesn't matter, though. I just know that I passed really well.

I got to my mom's house safely and bought some movies and a case of CocaCola for the family. It was quite the eventful day.

-BC

Link to comment
Guest Snow Angel

I really like how you wrote that. It was so descriptive. I felt sad when you quit your job. I guess maybe because I'm having regrets at jobs I've quit but shouldn't have. I'm really happy for your fateful meeting. Hopefully something good will come of it. Maybe new friends or even a career. It sounds like you've made it into the man's camp, the way he talked to you. Good for you!

Link to comment
Guest raydub

BC

Thanks for sharing man.. that's kinda awesome.

On a GOOD day i can pass but only until about 20 seconds into the talking...meh. Itll get better.

Pretty sweet day though...if you dont mind missin the bus ;)

Ray

Link to comment
Guest StrandedOutThere

Thanks for sharing your story. It was cool.

Changes are always a little scary but at the same time exhilarating. Like they say in the movie Dune: "Without change something sleeps inside us and seldom awakens. The sleeper must awaken." Sorry. I'm a sci-fi dork. Still, it sounds like your making some positive changes. That's always good, even when it is a bit freaky at first.

Congrats on passing so well! That's awesome!! It sounds like you were really "one of the guys". Cheers!

Link to comment
Guest Kelly

change is good...

when i stop and think about the changes in my life i cry expecially cause when i came out to my parents my mom became mentally ill and is in the hospital again for the 7th time in 7 months and is very unstable

she says its not from me and its from all her miscarriges... im worried though about them they had a very low income with both my mom and step dad and sister working. and my step dad quit his job to be with my mom and my mom cant work in her state.

anyway but when i think about it the changes i have made are good.

i have 7 part time jobs with auditorium work.

i live with my dad.

i have a boyfriend.

i have a gender therapist.

but my moms family cant live off my sisters child support expescially with her going to college.

Link to comment

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now
  • Who's Online   6 Members, 0 Anonymous, 90 Guests (See full list)

    • MaybeRob
    • Lydia_R
    • Ashley0616
    • Heather Shay
    • MirandaB
    • April Marie
  • Recently Browsing   0 members

    • No registered users viewing this page.
  • Forum Statistics

    • Total Topics
      80.7k
    • Total Posts
      769.1k
  • Member Statistics

    • Total Members
      12,050
    • Most Online
      8,356

    LostAndForgotten
    Newest Member
    LostAndForgotten
    Joined
  • Today's Birthdays

    1. Bddk
      Bddk
      (28 years old)
    2. Belladonnakarapinskia
      Belladonnakarapinskia
    3. Breanne_O
      Breanne_O
    4. Danielle57
      Danielle57
    5. ferh.li
      ferh.li
      (20 years old)
  • Posts

    • Lydia_R
      I'm curious, but then if I am true to myself, I have a hard time being in crowds.  I love hearing great music, but being in an audience is such a turnoff for me that I don't go to concerts or bars.  I'm just very much a producer.  I actually like doing the dishes more than going to concerts because it's an active thing.
    • Heather Shay
      Always an under appreciated musician..  
    • Heather Shay
      My therapist is trying a new tact. I've named my self protection self that ssays not eating or too much exercise because when I starting because oftrauma my protective self started and also at the time the name Shay came to me and is now part of my name.  It's not like having a split personality, just my primative self protection who is always there to help me. My therapist has Shay, me and him working as a team to assure her that I am safe and to start changing her role in my life so I protect me by eating right and exercising to maintain a heathy body. It is helping a little but we just started this a few weeks ago.
    • Heather Shay
    • Heather Shay
      Do you believe in fate?
    • Heather Shay
      Another weird yet satisfying new week.
    • Heather Shay
      A person who is embarrassed feels shy, ashamed, or guilty about something. He looked a bit embarrassed. Synonyms: ashamed, upset, shamed, uncomfortable More Synonyms of embarrassed.
    • Heather Shay
    • Heather Shay
    • April Marie
      Seeking Helen Mirren's grace and style.
    • Heather Shay
    • April Marie
      Good morning, everyone!!   Yesterday was lawn mower battery day. I've been nursing the battery on my Zero Turn mower for two weeks. It gave up the ghost when I stopped to refuel yesterday so I had to run over to the local shop to get a new one. And forgot my wallet so I had to drive home and back again.   Then, I was using the garden tractor with the bagger to pick up the clippings. I cut about 7 acres so it took me awhile. When I was done, I went to refuel it and, of course, it wouldn't start when I'd finished putting in the gas. I'm hoping it was just some corrosion on the cables - cleaned them up, gave it a quick charge and it started right up. We'll see if it will hold a charge now or turn out like the Zero Turn.   House cleaning day today. And then I'm going to just relax outside for a bit and enjoy one more warm day before our temps drop and rain comes in for the weekend.   Enjoy this beautiful day we've been given!!
    • Heather Shay
      Striking your head against the wall, you can lose 150 calories an hour. Blue color attracts mosquitoes in two times more than any other. Most toilet paper sold for home use in France is pink. In 2014, a missing woman on a vacation in Iceland was found when it was discovered that she was in the search party looking for herself. In 2005, Mark Zuckerberg unsuccessfully tried to sell Facebook for $75 million. Back then it was called TheFacebook. Strawberries can also be white or yellow, and some can even taste like pineapples! The Boston Marathon didn’t allow female runners until 1972. Banks have therapists known as ‘wealth psychologist’ who help ultra-rich clients, who are unable to mentally cope with their immense wealth.
    • Birdie
      I attend a medical day-centre in Texas for needed medical services. It's religious oriented, so not gender fluid friendly. I of course dress 100% in female attire yet androgynous to keep both "them happy", and I really don't mind.    I of course am imposed rules that no other participant is bound by. The examples are the allowed size of my backpack, or how many visits per day I can see my Representative payee.  The gender neutral restroom use was a compromise that all off us have agreed to.  Not being able to wear tanks tops or shorts that aren't "Bermuda length" are other examples of where I am restricted more than any other participant. "Bra talk" is strictly forbidden, even though their doctor and occupational therapist were the ones that told me I needed support due to neck pain.    I found myself being reprimanded by staff three times yesterday for very petty details, and they have constantly pushed for me to remove myself from the program voluntarily. I am of course someone not welcomed in the program, but federal discrimination laws prevent them from removing me. They instead are just making life miserable with the hopes that I will leave on my own. 
    • awkward-yet-sweet
      Nope.  I live in a rural area.  Pride events are for city folks.  The normally quiet LGBTQ+ club kind of changes atmosphere during that time, and things get a bit political.  As a non-Democrat, I avoid it.
  • Upcoming Events

Contact TransPulse

TransPulse can be contacted in the following ways:

Email: Click Here.

To report an error on this page.

Legal

Your use of this site is subject to the following rules and policies, whether you have read them or not.

Terms of Use
Privacy Policy
DMCA Policy
Community Rules

Hosting

Upstream hosting for TransPulse provided by QnEZ.

Sponsorship

Special consideration for TransPulse is kindly provided by The Breast Form Store.
×
×
  • Create New...