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Thoughts On Life And Humans


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I wrote this back November 1st 2010. After reading it personally to many people and seeing their reactions..I figured it might help someone by sharing it. I know all who venture here have/will/and are having lives that press a person to their limits. Hopefully this can help you keep your self in those limits : ). note: This was free written so typos exist. Sorry if any are confusing XD.

Life? What does it mean to live a life? Well Truthfully I believe this answer changes from person to person. Over all though a life normally is considered that of a humans existence . Humans...How some times I wish I didn't have to label my self one. I am sure every person in time has felt that way before. That they feel distance from everything around them.

A statement that makes me laugh but feel sad also is this: Humanity's worst enemy is its self. That is more true than I or any person in existence could ever express to another human. Every person is their worst enemy. Their second enemy is that of the man or women beside them. One can never conquer them selves. Not with all the reserves of will that god him self could give you could that be completed.

All you can do is believe. Believe in your self, know your self, learn your self, and know that you have the ability in you to do anything you want in your life. It is your choose what you become in this life. No person can make that decision for you. It doesn't matter how you were raised, where you are now, where you will be, it is your choose who you become. What happens to you is not what makes you. What makes you is you. your mind only becomes what you want it to be. It is up to you to open those doors to the future you want.

human: I've been given nuts in my life...so what...every person in their whole life has nuts. I always say what do you do with the nuts thrown at you? You make a Gosh darned fortress of out of that nuts to better prepare for the next nuts feast. does that mean you should close your mind? close your self or blame this person or that person..My answer is no..but sadly it is every person decision what they want to do with their lives.

This decision comes with pain, sadness, disrespect, more feelings that you wish you could just smash your head against and wall and take away. Wouldn't some say that is the wrong way then? The wrong way to live a life with such painfully bad feelings and thoughts. Well Then those people need to stuff their two cents back in their wallet. The only truly good people in this world in humanities existence seem to have come from such a existence. Feel pain feel sadness of such a high amount that it attempt to consume them day in and day out. That they attempt to help people for no other reason but to help. That they get scorned time and time again for lending that hand that only gets you a knife in the back. That some how just after that hole heals you realize there is another one there and another and another. Some would think that is the statement of a stupid person or maybe naive. It is by far not such a path takes a stronger person that any path the person that states that has ever taken.

So someone has helped them selfs? they have made their decisions on what they need and want to become in their lifes? They believe in them selfs well That is a start. With at least a idea of the number one enemy in a humans life they can face the second worst enemy...Other humans.

Humans are social animals that require social contact or we will go mentally insane given times. What that speaks to me is that no human can avoid dealing with another human in any way or form . The interaction may be good or it may be bad either way such interactions will exist. Not one person can prepare another human for dealing with other humans. Every person will feel sadness, hate, pain, disrespect, anger, love, and any other emotion under the sun in their lifes. These feelings will be in some way related to the matter of humans at one point or another. What a person decides to make them self is what makes this human interactions better or worse.

it is quite ironically funny how life loves to screw over the good people in this world. Some would disagree some would agree. Sadly Life is what life is. Your given nuts and you can decide what to do with it. live on a nuts mount or go make something out of it. its up to you what you decide to do with whats thrown at you and how you look at every single thing. The same matter comes with human interactions. You are given nuts but some may be good nuts some may be bad nuts. Its your decision what happens and who you become. The nuts given doesn't matter for anything compared to what you make it be.

Thanks for reading this..I hope you enjoyed it and that it may have helped you :).

Elizabeth C

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