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Ok I figured I would just post these dang writings on here because I keep linking people XD. So here is my freestyle write story "Love?"

I have recently given some advice to a few individuals about matters of love, relationships, and some just stupid things that happened along the way. The advice i gave was surprisionly inceightful in a way that even shocked my self. Reflecting on why that may have been I am freewriting this.

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To love is to feel, To feel is to heal, or scar from the pain. Love is caring for a another human in such a way that the faults as good or bad...will not stop your feelings for them. A bad husband, a bad boyfriend, a bad friend...matter not..this is why love heals...but also pains a person heart. Love is more blind to a humans mind than all the ignorance of this world. Listen to your heart and still you do the most stupidest things. Things that every person around you thinks your a idiot for doing...that scurn you for doing. What they do not understand..what they do not feel..is the connection you have with them. A connection that...to the bottom of your heart..you will love them...no matter their faults. Your mind blinded be love....with only your heart to guide you...for better or worse..You let it guide. This is why Love comes with the challenege..that 1 human can take...you.

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Guest miss kindheart

If I speak with the tongues of Angels

But do not profess love

I have said nothing

If I have all the knowledge of the Universe

But do not have love

I have nothing

If I give all my possessions, my body, and my soul

But do not give love

I have given nothing

:wub: vanna

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Guest Scott8090

If I speak with the tongues of Angels

But do not profess love

I have said nothing

If I have all the knowledge of the Universe

But do not have love

I have nothing

If I give all my possessions, my body, and my soul

But do not give love

I have given nothing

:wub: vanna

I like that vanna :). Love is in more than one form. Loving another as a friend or a family member is just as power full at times as Loving your lover. Love is in many aspects of our lives but we rarely notice it. Without love all of lives are meaningless ^_^ .

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Love is something that I often feel escapes me but in so many ways I know that it has not.

I am alone a lot but sometimes that is not a bad thing, it can make me appreciate the times with people who do care about me.

I have been blessed with people who cared about me as a male and now I have a few very accepting and loving friends who love me as I am.

Thanks for posting this topic, Scott.

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest Scott8090

Love is something that I often feel escapes me but in so many ways I know that it has not.

I am alone a lot but sometimes that is not a bad thing, it can make me appreciate the times with people who do care about me.

I have been blessed with people who cared about me as a male and now I have a few very accepting and loving friends who love me as I am.

Thanks for posting this topic, Scott.

Love ya,

Sally

I happy for you sally!!!!! Feeling of aloneness i am sure a lot of us have had. The bad trully does make the good worth it. Loving friends help more than any of us could express ^_^ .

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